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I need some dating advice. There's this girl who likes me and I like her back. Any general tips... Oh yeah we haven't yet in person, bu we go to the same school. She's a year up though. And we've only texted and emailed. And I'm really shy and don't know wha to say.

2011-07-12 04:49:00 Author: Unknown User

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Be yourself bro, no I'm not a hippy, if she likes you for who you are, then be that person! Second thought: If that person is shy, stare at her and make her feel uncomfortable XD Third Thought: Just Kiding, go by original statement!

2011-07-12 05:11:00 Author: Phazerz123 Posts: 440

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Yeah, of course the best place for dating advices is a gaming forum but umm seriously, Phazerz has some good advices... SOME

2011-07-12 05:18:00 Author: Chump Posts: 1712

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Here's some advice. Smell her bicycle seat.

2011-07-12 05:51:00 Author: AbstractFlesh Posts: 837

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Like Phazers said, just be normal. Ask her normal questions; keep connected. Just talk with her constantly and be active. By the time school comes around again, you'll have a good idea on who this girl truly is and feel much less nervous when you meet her in person. Just keep talking to her. She will- and, in turn, you will- open up in time... ... then again, I never had a girlfriend. ;_; Though I'm still looking... *sigh*

2011-07-12 06:07:00 Author: Outlaw-Jack Posts: 5757

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Here's some experienced advice. Forget it and don't get your heart crushed or life destroyed. Just enjoy life, make friends and do the things you love. You'll meet someone in future that will be the perfect person for you if you so wish to get married. But even then stuffs going to happen and you're going to end up like 90% of couples in the world. Sorry that I'm being harsh here. But really. Just be friends with her. It's the best thing you can do at this point.

2011-07-12 06:42:00 Author: Alismuffin Posts: 1328

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I don't know the girl, so the only advice I can give you is: 1. Shave, unless you're old enough to look good with a beard (18+). 2. Brush your teeth extremely well and try to use mouthwash. 3. Use deodorant, but only for under your clothes. Use cologne or perfume for over your clothes, on your neck, on your wrists and behind the ears. 4. Don't wear what you would usually wear with your friends. 5. Don't treat her like your friends. 6. Be careful when she asks you about herself! Most importantly: Just go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

2011-07-12 08:39:00 Author: Flamento Posts: 352

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What terrible advice. Don't give up on relationships all together, but be aware that most relationships in school are not going to last very long. You said she is a grade older then you. Make sure you don't make that apparent in your relationship cause women like men who take control and are confident. If you let age become a factor, and make it seem like she is more mature or in control because she is older, then it wont work out. Remember that how you are feeling or thinking, she is thinking the same way. Your in a good position because she already likes you, you have already done the hardest part of the process. Now she is more worried about whether you really like her, rather then if she really likes you, and ironically you are thinking the same way. So stop worrying whether she will like you and concentrate on whether you really like her. Thats when things get really complicated. Many people will disagree with this logic, especially females, but there is no doubt that it works. I have gone through highschool and some of college with this process and it worked with every girl i was with. Its all based on human psychology, imagine this..... Most humans try to please the people, who they are unsure of their relationship with. Meaning, if there is this popular guy names Bob, who doesn't converse with you often but when he does he is pretty nice. Then there is Joe, he is a really nice guy. He calls you all the time to make sure your got the homework and never fails to say hi to you in the hallway. Even if they are equally popular, most people tend to "suck up" more to Bob because they are unsure of their relationship. They automatically feel the need to win their attention since they don't fully have it. I'm not saying most people treat Joe badly, im just saying most people go out of their way to please the Bob even tho they are less friends win them. Think about this and try to relate it to yourself. If maybe there is a kid in your class that doesn't acknowledge you as much as you like, you tend to do unusual things to get his attention or satisfaction. My point of this is, girls behave in the same way. If they feel like they have your 100% satisfaction, then they no longer have the desire to win attention. That is why you cant smother them, but you cant ignore them. You have to find that sweet spot in between where the girl is worrying more about impressing you, or gaining you satisfaction, rather then whether your impressing her enough. This stuff can't be taught really, you have to learn it through experience. The only way i could really help you is if i was with you in your school. So you kinda have to try to work off this logic and develop it on your own. Try to look at how you behave as a human, and use it to your advantage on others. Don't ever do immoral things to take advantage of people, try to become a less primitive behaving person, but at the same time studying each word you say to get you through life easier. Good luck

2011-07-12 08:59:00 Author: ShadowTyphoon Posts: 80

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I need some dating advice. There's this girl who likes me and I like her back. Any general tips... Oh yeah we haven't yet in person, bu we go to the same school. She's a year up though. And we've only texted and emailed. And I'm really shy and don't know wha to say. Alcohol. NOTICE: Due to a failing of this post in just about every step, this post contains absolutely no useful information. Sorry.

2011-07-12 10:20:00 Author: Tecnoguy1 Posts: 206

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Treat 'em mean - Keep 'em keen

2011-07-12 12:57:00 Author: Macnme Posts: 1970

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Treat 'em mean - Keep 'em keen Or you could feed them illegal substances.

2011-07-12 14:42:00 Author: Tecnoguy1 Posts: 206

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Actually - "treat 'em mean" is true. Girls don't want a meek, wimpy, wet blanket for a boyfriend... they "say" that they do - ..but what they really want is a bad-boy. And if you're not a bad-boy, then you are a wet blanket - and she will cheat on you with a bad-boy (can you tell I've had bad experiences?). It wasn't until I stopped caring about what women thought that I was able to fool one into staying with me ( I love's her really - but don't tell her I said that! )

2011-07-12 15:20:00 Author: Macnme Posts: 1970

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While I understand people need advice from time to time, threads like this one inevitably devolve into stereotypes and general chaos fairly quickly. Every woman is different and there is no one size fits all advice that will be of much use to you in matters like this. If you guys want to give advice on a one on one basis via private messages go for it but I'm locking down this thread. Best of luck to you. Locking

2011-07-12 15:45:00 Author: Morgana25 Posts: 5983

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