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I just have a few questions here that will hopefully break my 2 year icy streak with women. Its hard to go 2 years single and its about time I found out whats helping me and whats hurting..

1) Is it not ok to approach women while they're working? This never works for me, besides the strip club of course
2) How many times is it ok to text without a response back? I don't want to seem clingy.
3) Is "hang out"code for something else? women never seem interested in this, but they love going out, long as reiko57 is footing the bill.
4) Why doesn't my car matter? I had more girls with my cavalier than i've even come close to with this Acura.. stupid acura why did I even buy you?
5) Why doesn't playing guitar help me? I thought girls loved that stuff, again, more girls when i sucked than when i took the time to get decent, why god why?
6) Hats, should i ditch them now that i'm 24? Maybe people think your hiding thinning hair? I'm not, yet.. but i've always worn them.. could that be working against me?
7) Muscles.. do i need some? i'm wide, not fat, but like... stretched horizontaly, and thin.. that a bad look??

insights? judge me if you want, i need to figure this out while a symbolence of my youth still exists, so dignity is of no concern.
2011-02-10 03:30:00

Author:
reiko57
Posts: 115


Take this to the Oprah Winfrey show or Single's Night at a bar.

The average age of the members in this site is 13-20, don't think this is the best thread in a LBP site.

Also, it's been made a few times and closed each time.
2011-02-10 03:41:00

Author:
Unknown User


1) Is it not ok to approach women while they're working? This never works for me, besides the strip club of course
Unless you work with them and are rather friendly with them, I wouldn't reccomend it.

2) How many times is it ok to text without a response back? I don't want to seem clingy.
Not really a texter, so can't help there, I rather call or visit.

3) Is "hang out"code for something else? women never seem interested in this, but they love going out, long as reiko57 is footing the bill.
You're thinking of all women as a single entity, they're individuals, so it depends on who you're dealing with.

4) Why doesn't my car matter? I had more girls with my cavalier than i've even come close to with this Acura.. stupid acura why did I even buy you?
Why should it?

5) Why doesn't playing guitar help me? I thought girls loved that stuff, again, more girls when i sucked than when i took the time to get decent, why god why?
Whoeveer told you that?
No offence dude, but it seems you've been learning your "tips" on what women like, on Tv.
Not all women like guitariss, its variates.
Its like saying all guys like something just because they're guys, obviously not true, right?
Again, women are individuals, not a single mind.

6) Hats, should i ditch them now that i'm 24? Maybe people think your hiding thinning hair? I'm not, yet.. but i've always worn them.. could that be working against me?
If it fits the look or simply like to wear hats, shouldn't matter, you're just some guy with a hat to strangers, no one will over-think it.

7) Muscles.. do i need some? i'm wide, not fat, but like... stretched horizontaly, and thin.. that a bad look??
Personality over looks, most of the times, unlesss its the kind of woman that only goes for money/ looks of course, but for the most part, loks aren't THAT important.

insights? judge me if you want, i need to figure this out while a symbolence of my youth still exists, so dignity is of no concern.

Eh fair enough, tho I wouldn't reccomend posting in a thread of a videogame aimed at a younger audience for advice (look at the above post.), altho we do have mature members, there are still many younger ones, and altho not saying none of the younger ones can give advice, you wouldn't go to a playground asking for advice on this theme, would you?

Well, good luck pal, hope that helps!
2011-02-10 03:51:00

Author:
Silverleon
Posts: 6707


ahh thanks lelouch.. sometimes i forget kids even exist, guess i didn't think it through2011-02-10 03:56:00

Author:
reiko57
Posts: 115


Wear a baseball cap at all times. They LOVE that.

But for srs, that ^
2011-02-10 04:01:00

Author:
Bremnen
Posts: 1800


1. Bad idea... putting them in a bad position with their boss and their job. Respect for women helps.. this is not showing much respect.
2. Once.. if any. Doesn't anyone talk anymore? Phones are nice, use them... voices can tell you more.
3. Oh wow.. you are a dream come true for the professional party girl. Transportation and drinks to meet her next possible date.
4. Dunno.. some girls like cars. Most that are interested in meeting a guy want a man, not a jerk that drives a cool or semi cool car.
5. Playing on stage and being really good helps quite a bit in this category, but "those girls" used to scare the heck outta me in my gigging days. No.. play guitar for yourself, not to impress females.
6. Dunno.. if you look like a dork, wearing a hat isn't going to make a difference. Be yourself!!
7. Dunno.. it depends on the girl. I figure there is always someone out there for you. Again.. be yourself, have fun. Sometimes they just want to smile and have fun. Do you really want to have them fall in love with who you aren't? It won't end well...

..and yeah.. considering the site, probably not the best place to ask this question.
2011-02-10 04:02:00

Author:
jwwphotos
Posts: 11383


this might sound cliche but, always go after the girls that are in to YOU, cause it is really hard to go for any girl thats not into you2011-02-10 04:06:00

Author:
wait wtf
Posts: 853


i have always said i'm most attracted to women who are attracted to me lol2011-02-10 04:10:00

Author:
reiko57
Posts: 115


Good Luck but yep - gotta shut down the Dear Abby thread.

Locking.
2011-02-10 04:19:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983


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