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Please please dont ignore this.. Please. I need help.. Please

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The thing is I was just doing normal stuff, when suddenly I realised.. Im probably never going to get a girlfreind. I'm 17 and I haven't had a girlfreind yet. I've, in the past 3 years or so, been interested in certain girls, y'know, and they always have boyfreinds already. Now I'm really depressed and I have lost all hope.2011-01-12 16:58:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


I'm serious please help. I don't nkow how I can type crying... This is a genuine cry for help. What is trolling? Please.2011-01-12 17:12:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


I have never spoken any words2011-01-12 17:15:00

Author:
J_wulfke
Posts: 72


It is not how I look, seriously. That is not the problem. Yes I will accept your help, I am really, quite desperate.2011-01-12 17:23:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


I'm 16. Haven't really had a girlfriend. Most of my friends don't. And no we're not the dungeons and dragons club. No worries mate you're not the only one.
Go to a disco or whatever. Take a wingman to ask girls for you. You can do the same for him. Makes it easier by cutting out about 50% of the awkwardness...

edit: Alex- Don't be a **** now...
2011-01-12 17:28:00

Author:
KQuinn94Z
Posts: 1758


I has said nothing...2011-01-12 17:31:00

Author:
J_wulfke
Posts: 72


It is not how I look, seriously. That is not the problem. Yes I will accept your help, I am really, quite desperate.

This is why girls don't want you.

Don't sweat it though, it's not like you're missing out on any meaningful relationships yet at that age.
2011-01-12 17:32:00

Author:
Foofles
Posts: 2278


It's my Bristol buddy!

Why are you so desperate for a girlfriend? I didn't get a girlfriend until I was 16, and before then I wasn't crying over the fact that I'd never had one. You should be with someone because you like them, not because you feel ashamed to have never been with anyone before.


I've been where you are now,... But look at me now. I've got a fab girlfriend, I have a few but great friends that I can count on and I'll give you some tips. 1. Don't aim to high: if you go for the girl that all the boys want well you won't get her... Those kind of girls always go for the best looking guy. 2. Don't aim to low: Do you want to be seen with a girl covered in zips and such ? No and if you do would you be able to love her as much as you could love a normal girl ? 3. Step up your game, buy new fashionable clothes and try to get a clearer skin by seeing a dermatologist. 4. Look for advice on the internet but be warned don't believe everyone some are out to make others look bad. If you need any other advice just post here or message me. I'm willing to help you get you're life back on track.

I'm sorry but all that is the worst advice ever. My advice (and as a lazy person with little confidence, this has treated me well ) is to just sit back and enjoy being a teen. Someone you like will come along one day and all the magic will happen then. Until then, there's no point in getting wound up about these things...
2011-01-12 17:32:00

Author:
Leather-Monkey
Posts: 2266


I'm not aiming high... Really. I don't find those type of girls attractive in the slightest.

Edit- SNIPED!
2011-01-12 17:34:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


Anyone saying 'change your clothes' and aim lower, people don't care about anything other than looks -

Be yourself and someone who actually likes you, and whom you actually like, will appear at some point. Much better than having some superficial plastic slag around all the time, who'll jump ship as soon as she sees someone with a Ferrari.

And to whomever deleted my first post here - I hate you.

Edit: LEATHER I HAVEN'T SEEN YOU IN ****ING AGES HAI!
2011-01-12 17:36:00

Author:
Unknown User


It's my Bristol buddy!

Why are you so desperate for a girlfriend? I didn't get a girlfriend until I was 16, and before then I wasn't crying over the fact that I'd never had one. You should be with someone because you like them, not because you feel ashamed to have never been with anyone before.



I'm sorry but all that is the worst advice ever. My advice (and as a lazy person with little confidence, this has treated me well ) is to just sit back and enjoy being a teen. Someone you like will come along one day and all the magic will happen then. Until then, there's no point in getting wound up about these things...

Ha well that's where we are different sir leather. I was very active when I was trying to get a girl and it actually worked for me. When I dressed better my girlfriend suddenly noticed my existence. But still I respect your opinion and you are right sitting back works for some. But I do disagree as it is the worst advice ever. He wants to get a girl so I can at least advise him some things girls (the normal kind) notice.
2011-01-12 17:40:00

Author:
J_wulfke
Posts: 72


Ha well that's where we are different sir leather. I was very active when I was trying to get a girl and it actually worked for me. When I dressed better my girlfriend suddenly noticed my existence. But still I respect your opinion and you are right sitting back works for some. But I do disagree as it is the worst advice ever. He wants to get a girl so I can at least advise him some things girls (the normal kind) notice.

'The normal kind' - See my above post.
2011-01-12 17:41:00

Author:
Unknown User


Anyone saying 'change your clothes' and aim lower, people don't care about anything other than looks - you're all retarded.

Be yourself and someone who actually likes you, and whom you actually like, will appear at some point. Much better than having some superficial plastic slag around all the time, who'll jump ship as soon as she sees someone with a Ferrari.

And to whomever deleted my first post here - I hate you.

Edit: LEATHER I HAVEN'T SEEN YOU IN ****ING AGES HAI!

Just to make it clear it wasn't me.. And Your opinion is rather brute no ? Try to have a civilised conversation shall we ? Dress better is just a common tip because all know that most gamers have horrible taste. No offence meant to those who take this offensive. And yes the normal kind if you haven't noticed,as I expect, people like other people who dress nicely instead of individuals wearing a skull t shirt and such. It's proven science that when you dress nice you have more chance of getting 1. a girl, 2. A job 3.And other socially affected events.
2011-01-12 17:42:00

Author:
J_wulfke
Posts: 72


What worries me is that you seem to be upset and sad about not having a girlfriend as if thats some kind of status symbol. Just think about finding someone nice that you like, not just for the sake of it. This is advice coming from an actual girl y'know. :kz:2011-01-12 17:47:00

Author:
PygmyOwl
Posts: 1316


What worries me is that you seem to be upset and sad about not having a girlfriend as if thats some kind of status symbol. Just think about finding someone nice that you like, not just for the sake of it. This is advice coming from an actual girl y'know.

Great advice !
2011-01-12 17:48:00

Author:
J_wulfke
Posts: 72


Just becoase we are gamers spent mean we have horrible taste please2011-01-12 17:49:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


OK I'm just gonna step in and say:

If you're serious about this whole End of The World Crisis, Do NOT post it on a forum. You will get mixed answers/advice/crap. The ONLY place to get advice is with people you can ACTUALLY talk to. And Oprah Winfrey's website. So, this whole thread is just gonna fail.

If you're trollin' (which I highly think you are), I so called that ****.
2011-01-12 17:49:00

Author:
Unknown User


Just to make it clear it wasn't me.. And Your opinion is rather brute no ? Try to have a civilised conversation shall we ? Dress better is just a common tip because all know that most gamers have horrible taste. No offence meant to those who take this offensive.

'Most gamers have horrible taste' - Some gamers make horrible generalisations. Not everyone walks around with Mario shirts on. I wear jeans, my battered skate shoes and a random old shirt - be it a band shirt, my beloved jack Daniels shirt, or any variety of random checked shirts over whatever else. Just because I play games and use a forum doesn't instantly limit me to wearing what a stereotypical nerd would wear. I'm not putting myself in any niche or whatever. I'll wear what I want to wear, I'll listen to what I want to listen to, and I'll do what I want to do. Someone having a problem with that isn't going to make me change - if it puts someone off me then **** 'em, I don't want to know someone who bases their opinion on someone purely off what they wear/listen to/whatever.

You are in effect telling him to change from what he likes to something he may not, just for the sake of being more accepted. He'll gain far more by just going out with a bunch of lads from school/college/whatever, because by going out he can meet people. It won't help wearing a load of new clothes if you still sit in your room.
2011-01-12 17:52:00

Author:
Unknown User


Why does that guy think I'm trolling? What is trolling? Really why? I don't understand. Please stop.2011-01-12 17:56:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


Best tip: Don't believe girls on internet dating sites2011-01-12 17:56:00

Author:
KQuinn94Z
Posts: 1758


Seriously what is trolling? How bad is it? :/2011-01-12 18:00:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


Guys if you don't have advice (advice that insults or makes fun of anyone will be deleted) then don't post at all. I'd hate to lock this down because you can't conduct yourselves like mature forum members.

Do I need to remind you guys of this? (https://lbpcentral.lbp-hub.com/index.php?t=36936-Moderation-Policy-Overhaul&highlight=moderation+overhaul)

Consider this your warning.
2011-01-12 18:04:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983


Have I done something wrong? 2011-01-12 18:13:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


No you haven't Screeno - I'm referring to some other posters. Your fine.2011-01-12 18:16:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983


Seriously what is trolling? How bad is it? :/

Trolling is posting in a way that provokes others to react in a negative way thus starting the dreaded Flame war or Flaming.

I believe you have serious problem and you in fact are not Trolling purposely. The best way to get a girlfriend that you can stand to be around is to start off as friends. If she did not initiate the friendship, and you did, then the most important part of making a friendship into a relationship is to NOT let her know what your intentions are, meaning keep your feelings about her to yourself. Eventually if she is even a little attracted to you she will be comfortable enough to see past your flaws and start to flirt with you. She will make comments like " Do you think this makes me look fat ?" or " I really like that shirt your wearing." .It will be obvious she is into you, but never ever ever jump the gun and say I love you, make her wait. Trust me, you will know when it's the right time.
2011-01-12 18:21:00

Author:
KILLA_TODDZILLA
Posts: 653


Oh Its like one of those Internet things.. Like i didn't use to know what most of smileys ment. "flame war" that sounds nastaaaaaay.2011-01-12 18:25:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


Just remember, Women are like dogs.. they can smell fear.

I was the same in my teens, I was 18 before I had my first real girlfriend and got laid... and it was pretty much exactly the same time as I thought "Screw it! I don't care anymore if I have a girlfriend or not!" - and then I got lucky.

Guys are inherently ugly, so most women don't go for looks - how else do you think these ugly, ugly millionaires end up with beautiful wives?
It's all about confidence... women like guys who are confident.

And the trick with confidence is... if you are not confident then fake it. The casual observer will not be able to tell the difference between "fake" confidence and real confidence... pretty soon, you'll be strutting around like Top Cat and beating off the girls with a S****y stick

there is a very fine line between acting confidently and acting arrogantly though, so tread carefully
2011-01-12 18:28:00

Author:
Macnme
Posts: 1970


Oh Its like one of those Internet things.. Like i didn't use to know what most of smileys ment. "flame war" that sounds nastaaaaaay.
http://i1099.photobucket.com/albums/g382/Sherri_SoutoFerri/iwaslike.png

Please Tell me I was not just duped into believing you.
2011-01-12 18:33:00

Author:
KILLA_TODDZILLA
Posts: 653


Just be like George Clooney. Jesus, how hard can it be?2011-01-12 18:35:00

Author:
BasketSnake
Posts: 2391


The thing is I was just doing normal stuff, when suddenly I realised.. Im probably never going to get a girlfreind. I'm 17 and I haven't had a girlfreind yet. I've, in the past 3 years or so, been interested in certain girls, y'know, and they always have boyfreinds already. Now I'm really depressed and I have lost all hope.

I was the same way as you. I was 20 before I had my first boyfriend. I've have several boyfriends since then, and now I am married. So don't be sad. Just be patient. ^_^ It'll happen.
2011-01-12 18:38:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569


http://i1099.photobucket.com/albums/g382/Sherri_SoutoFerri/iwaslike.png

Please Tell me I was not just duped into believing you.

I was not lying or anything if that's what you mean?
2011-01-12 18:43:00

Author:
Screeno
Posts: 153


just remember mate that Girls have feelings too, just be patient and a t some point you'll find a girl who is in your same position and go get her. I'm 15 and the longest relationship ive had is about 3 months.... don't worry, our time will come....2011-01-12 18:46:00

Author:
Hellobob5
Posts: 382


Guys are inherently ugly, so most women don't go for looks - how else do you think these ugly, ugly millionaires end up with beautiful wives?
It's all about confidence... women like guys who are confident.

And the trick with confidence is... if you are not confident then fake it. The casual observer will not be able to tell the difference between "fake" confidence and real confidence... pretty soon, you'll be strutting around like Top Cat and beating off the girls with a S****y stick

there is a very fine line between acting confidently and acting arrogantly though, so tread carefully

Girls like compassion and empathy too.... just sayin.
2011-01-12 18:46:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983


Don't lie... I've never ever met a woman who actually knows what she wants (jk)

But the key point most people seem to be making here is, don't rush it... you are young. You have so much to look forward to as you venture into adulthood. The myriad disappointments, the yawning chasms of pain, the glow gnawing descent into physical decay, the sheer unrelenting horror of it all.
2011-01-12 18:50:00

Author:
Macnme
Posts: 1970


How about this. Be yourself. Anyone? Seriously. This dress better, smell nicer, be more confident, jump in with a "break the ice" punchline are just cliche. They work for those short relationships, and if that's what you went then go for it. But if you want a real relationship, with giving and taking and actual joy from seeing/being with each other. Then be yourself. Girls look for guys that can be there for them, so having friendly relationships, is always a good start. Girls do look for confidence but that takes time, you have to be socially stable to have confidence. No one that sits inside their house and plays games all day will EVER have confidence needed in the outside world. Make friends, go out to the movies, dinner, and all that "fun" stuff and the confidence will come.

Kthxbai.
2011-01-12 20:08:00

Author:
Whalio Cappuccino
Posts: 5250


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