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Okay, so now this is a thread were you can write your problems in life and then people can try to help, this came up because I have this problem that I am aching to tell someone.
Okay, So theres this guy who I knew in College, and we became friends, But then I went to a different 6th form to him and now I really cant forget about him, hes the only one in the world I feel I need to be with me.
Also I was told by one of my friends whom I dont really like, that he said to them that he thought I was weird and didnt like me.
I've seen them like twice within the last 2 years but I dont know what to do, I need him so much, hes someone that I can really talk to and I dont feel like I'd ever be good enough for him, Its really quite sad.
2010-11-10 21:14:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


Just say Hi to him here and there, add him on FaceBook.
Start with Small talk.
Thats how all of my friendships start.
2010-11-10 21:17:00

Author:
Unknown User


With FaceBook, the thing is im planing on deleting mine, and I dont ever use it, It just seem uber uncool to me to be on facebook.
And I hardly ever see him, but I do know where he goes to Uni and Im scared I might start to stalk him because I havent seen him for like a year.
2010-11-10 21:19:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


If he said that about you i wouldnt even bother trying sweet. Im sure you like him but you never know when you get to know him he might be a idiot. Dont waste your time, im sure theres someone better out there who you see more often. Your a pretty girl and im sure you'll have a wide range of choice 2010-11-10 21:19:00

Author:
Fenderjt
Posts: 1969


The thing is though is that there have been other guys I've been with in the last year but all the guys I've been meeting seem emotionless and he wasnt, he was all I needed and it hurts that we dont talk, they say that EVERYONE is unique, but lots of people arent they just live, not even understand what the world is.2010-11-10 21:26:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


Unfortunately love is difficult and asking people here isnt the greatest idea but i completely agree with tia, move on.. sorry if i sound harsh, i am. i find love and all that stuff useless im better off alone and not picking up someones baggage to weigh me down..2010-11-10 21:26:00

Author:
Toykyo
Posts: 19


Unfortunately love is difficult and asking people here isnt the greatest idea but i completely agree with tia, move on.. sorry if i sound harsh, i am. i find love and all that stuff useless im better off alone and not picking up someones baggage to weigh me down..

Your right, I've been trying to forget, but everytime I get home I have alot of free time and look online at his facebook page, also I think its more than love, im not interested in a relationship with him really but I felt we had a special bond as friends.
Anyway, enough about me this thread is for anyone to discuss their extreme or not so extreme problems in life, think about things you wouldnt tell anyone, everyone has problems and im 100% sure nobodies perfect even if they look like they are on the outside.
2010-11-10 21:37:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


I've been in situations somewhat similar to this, but not quite on the same scale... I agree that asking us may not get you the answer you're looking for, but I say just go ahead and do what you think is right. Sure, it sounds banal, but there's no reason you couldn't do this..2010-11-10 21:39:00

Author:
piggabling
Posts: 2979


Hmm I don't really think I can help much, I'm not really experienced with sort of thing. If I was you though I would stop feeling like you're not good enough for him to start. That's something easier said than done unfortunately.

Up until this week actually, I've been seeing my friends and everyone I know 5 days a week, every week. I barely use Facebook now but I know I'm going to use it to keep in touch with friends when I step out into the adult world. I don't think I'll be making any new friends through it though.

All I can really think of, since you said he's easy to talk to, is whenever you see him try to start having a conversation with him. Or maybe listen to Fender I dunno
2010-11-10 21:40:00

Author:
SR20DETDOG
Posts: 2431


When i have some problems, i just stick to mom and daddy :3

^ joke...
2010-11-10 21:44:00

Author:
Jonaolst
Posts: 935


Ask him dont if you try and find out from others, all you will get is chinese whispers and thing get warped and it better to find out and not dance around it over and over2010-11-10 21:48:00

Author:
jump_button
Posts: 1014


Ok i got this problem
I liked this girl
but she didnt like me and stuff
But i still like her but it will be better to get her out of my head cause missing some one is painfull youknow and stuff
so i want to try to get her out of my head in some way?
how?
2010-11-10 21:48:00

Author:
Unknown User


Ok i got this problem
I liked this girl
but she didnt like me and stuff
But i still like her but it will be better to get her out of my head cause missing some one is painfull youknow and stuff
so i want to try to get her out of my head in some way?
how?

Liking someone is alot easier than talking about a unique bond between 2 people.
Okay so there must be a reason for why she doesnt like you, 1. Shes out of your league, which you cant do anything about really. You could try to look like someone she'd date. 2. Shes a *****, lots of girls arent interested in guys and they think they are better then everyone.
You should just be her friend, help her out now and again, let her know you exist, relationships can evolve from friendships.

If this doesnt work you'll need to forget her, music would help ALOT with this because its emotional.
Try this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRwAOwowdQk
2010-11-10 22:00:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


Well this sounds a bit familiar. But obviously a bit different...since...I'm not homosexual, thus my feelings are for girls. or a girl. Yeah.

I don't really know what you should do, since it's always going to be different for everyone. But if you're going to do something about it, do it NOW or you might just never forgive yourself.
2010-11-10 22:00:00

Author:
ARD
Posts: 4291


Ahhh....well....this is awkward2010-11-10 22:25:00

Author:
Iceychill56
Posts: 175


Ahhh....well....this is awkward
olol lol xP xP.
2010-11-10 22:29:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


I got YLOD the day Black Ops came out so my parents didnt get me black ops.
I did the homeade fix now they are to cheap to buy me it for another week.
I need help murdering them.
2010-11-10 22:33:00

Author:
Unknown User


I got YLOD the day Black Ops came out so my parents didnt get me black ops.
I did the homeade fix now they are to cheap to buy me it for another week.
I need help murdering them.

Okay be right there, how do you wanna kill 'em, with bananas or a watermelon to the head?
2010-11-10 22:36:00

Author:
hannahowens
Posts: 106


I got YLOD the day Black Ops came out so my parents didnt get me black ops.
I did the homeade fix now they are to cheap to buy me it for another week.
I need help murdering them.

get mutch medicine and mix it all together and then put it in theire drinks
2010-11-10 22:37:00

Author:
Unknown User


Okay be right there, how do you wanna kill 'em, with bananas or a watermelon to the head?

Water melon sounds easier
2010-11-10 22:39:00

Author:
Unknown User


well be patient for patients is the key to catching a big fish.
that and having decent bait.
but i am told that black ops is over rated and filled with noobs.
but hanna, i recommend building up your freindship slowly. then tell him how you feel. if he is as awesome as you say he will understand and you will become closer. if not then at least you know that it wouldnt have worked.
2010-11-10 23:23:00

Author:
unXpectiD
Posts: 1132


With FaceBook, the thing is im planing on deleting mine, and I dont ever use it, It just seem uber uncool to me to be on facebook.
.

That right there. That is, as you put it, 'uber uncool'.

Also, learn correct grammar and spelling, it'll impress him. TRUST ME I NEVER LIE EVER.
2010-11-11 00:13:00

Author:
Unknown User


The best place to find help for real problems is by taking to real people.

The forums are great for socializing, but I think it's nicer to keep this place as separate from our problems as possible. My problems already get me down in real life; the last thing I need is to have them here too.....or maybe thats just me?
2010-11-11 00:24:00

Author:
Mr_T-Shirt
Posts: 1477


The best place to find help for real problems is by taking to real people.

The forums are great for socializing, but I think it's nicer to keep this place as separate from our problems as possible. My problems already get me down in real life; the last thing I need is to have them here too.....or maybe thats just me?

Yea, This forum doesn`t do ``Personal`` threads very well.
I know, I created a few in my time
2010-11-11 02:20:00

Author:
Unknown User


well be patient for patients is the key to catching a big fish.
that and having decent bait.
but i am told that black ops is over rated and filled with noobs.
but hanna, i recommend building up your freindship slowly. then tell him how you feel. if he is as awesome as you say he will understand and you will become closer. if not then at least you know that it wouldnt have worked.

no... the n00bs are the ones who played CoD: MW2 without paying CoD: 4 MW (because if they did... they would realize how n00by n00b tubes are )

about... your "problem" im 13... I can't really help
2010-11-11 02:55:00

Author:
YEAH_NAH
Posts: 775


Ive been having a horrible time.

My MineCraft House Burned down.
I had the YLOD Yesterday
I cant play Black Ops till next week
I got kicked off of Fatal Fantasia
I got warned for spamming when the message was not spam nor anything like spam
2010-11-11 02:59:00

Author:
Unknown User


Okay, so now this is a thread were you can write your problems in life and then people can try to help, this came up because I have this problem that I am aching to tell someone.
Okay, So theres this guy who I knew in College, and we became friends, But then I went to a different 6th form to him and now I really cant forget about him, hes the only one in the world I feel I need to be with me.
Also I was told by one of my friends whom I dont really like, that he said to them that he thought I was weird and didnt like me.
I've seen them like twice within the last 2 years but I dont know what to do, I need him so much, hes someone that I can really talk to and I dont feel like I'd ever be good enough for him, Its really quite sad.

I really should change my name to 2 cents...so here's my 2 cents. Your problem is'nt the problem it's a symptom of your problem which you need to address to solve all of your problems.Does that make sense?
2010-11-13 22:08:00

Author:
KILLA_TODDZILLA
Posts: 653


Ive been having a horrible time.

My MineCraft House Burned down.
I had the YLOD Yesterday
I cant play Black Ops till next week
I got kicked off of Fatal Fantasia
I got warned for spamming when the message was not spam nor anything like spam

Do barrleroll and everything will be Okay
2010-11-13 22:10:00

Author:
Unknown User


Why did you get kicked of FF?2010-11-13 22:58:00

Author:
Jaslow
Posts: 775


Love?!....Try getting noob tubed!2010-11-14 03:04:00

Author:
MrFunctionality
Posts: 637


Prbome;ls are ittre;evamt because everyone will dies !2010-11-14 03:28:00

Author:
Unknown User


Ok i got this problem
I liked this girl
but she didnt like me and stuff
But i still like her but it will be better to get her out of my head cause missing some one is painfull youknow and stuff
so i want to try to get her out of my head in some way?
how?

if you wanna be sad

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fregObNcHC8

if you wanna be happy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMUQMSXLlHM
2010-11-14 05:39:00

Author:
Charlemagne
Posts: 513


Prbome;ls are ittre;evamt because everyone will dies !

I don't think you're entirely sober.
2010-11-14 12:06:00

Author:
ARD
Posts: 4291


I don't think you're entirely sober.

Maybe not, but my point was vaild.
2010-11-14 12:19:00

Author:
Unknown User


if you wanna be sad

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fregObNcHC8

if you wanna be happy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMUQMSXLlHM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBgCRmLOv6I

This made my Happy
2010-11-14 12:59:00

Author:
Unknown User


I don't think you're entirely sober.

LOL! He was lit 10 hours ago and he's still going?
Quote Originally Posted by Alex? View Post
Prbome;ls are ittre;evamt because everyone will dies ! Either you made your point in a foreign language or your typing with your nose.
2010-11-14 15:52:00

Author:
KILLA_TODDZILLA
Posts: 653


I read this thread and now I have brain aneurysm, what do?

Also OP should try to find more emotionally available men than obsessing over the one she's met so far. Also by thinking you're not worthy of him you're you're creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Also we're less unique than we think and could probably live a long happy life with every 1 in 1000 people if not more, so don't sabotage yourself with this "he's the one" nonsense. I wish executing this advice was as easy as it is to sit in front of a keyboard and type it but it isn't so good luck with that.
2010-11-15 14:30:00

Author:
SeanyC-SeanyDo
Posts: 115


Okay, So theres this guy who I knew in College, and we became friends, But then I went to a different 6th form to him and now I really cant forget about him, hes the only one in the world I feel I need to be with me.
Also I was told by one of my friends whom I dont really like, that he said to them that he thought I was weird and didnt like me.
I've seen them like twice within the last 2 years but I dont know what to do, I need him so much, hes someone that I can really talk to and I dont feel like I'd ever be good enough for him, Its really quite sad.

God, I hate situations like these. Something similar is happening with me. A girl who I've liked (loved) for *counts in head* 6 years now (I know) has gone away. We've been friends since kindergarden and our families have always been close. We've been with each other for the death of loved ones and the birth of them, helping out each other as much as we can along the way. I haven't seen her for almost 2 years now, though we have talked. Just recently I found out she was going out with someone. I have never felt a worse feeling in my life, such a confusing feeling. It was a feeling of dread and misery that we might not ever be, for we may of permanently grown apart, but it was also a feeling of happiness as I knew she was with someone who makes her happy. I can't say it is easy letting someone go, because it absolutely isn't (I haven't yet), but you have to realize that there are plenty more people out there. No matter what you tell yourself you can be sure that, if you look, eventually you will find someone who loves you as deeply as you love them. If he doesn't want you than there is no point in pursuing him. Wow writing this makes me realize how fast time has gone by...make the most of what little time we have, keep your loved ones close.
2010-11-22 06:35:00

Author:
Unknown User


Well, today i found the meaning of life-
http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/4457/themeaningoflife.png

Modern Warfare 2= Call of duty (four two(that, as we all know is the meaning of life))
Therefore Call of Duty is also the meaning of life, COD= army and army = war and war = death, therefore deciphering that death is the meaning of life.
2010-11-22 07:16:00

Author:
AA_BATTERY
Posts: 1117


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