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who wants me 2 stop going 2 this website. no joke.2008-10-25 07:17:00

Author:
Unknown User


Let me be frank: Your activity here has been far less than stellar since you came back from your ban. I don't have anything against you. However, some of your activity has been...irritating. I would ask you to actually not leave. Rather, I'd prefer that you simply think more before each post, and check yourself each time and make sure what you're posting is actually beneficial to the forum. Which means cutting back on the random comments.

Yeah, I know, I like random comments, too. But sometimes, they simply aren't necessary. And if all you've got is a random comment, and not anything that actually applies, then usually it ends up being a worthless post.

If, because of your activity, you simply outright left, then the problem with that would be that you didn't actually learn anything. Something was wrong, and so you bailed. Instead, this whole social experiment is designed so that for the people who are in it, it actually helps shape them and make the better, and polish them, bit by bit. Bailing means that nothing happens as a result. Or at least not nearly as much as it should.

Mistakes are human. After all, "the best of men are men at best." However, I'd like to say a word to everyone ELSE reading this: Work through it. Accept that people are going to fail, and simply see how you can correct it and gently bring it back in line, rather than...pretty much any thing else. You know what I'm talking about. And yes, we've all done it. Again, what is this forum about? Improve.

If you'd like to stick around, I'd be glad to help you, and make sure that your stay here is an enjoyable one, and that all parties are helped as a result. We'd like to make this forum an inclusive one, but some people simply exclude themselves, and there's nothing we can do about it. But if you want to stay, then you need to make sure you realize that everybody including yourself has weaknesses and faults, and that those are be built upon and strengthened. Not merely going with the flow.

So you in or what?
2008-10-25 07:32:00

Author:
Mark D. Stroyer
Posts: 632


Let me be frank: Your activity here has been far less than stellar since you came back from your ban. I don't have anything against you. However, some of your activity has been...irritating. I would ask you to actually not leave. Rather, I'd prefer that you simply think more before each post, and check yourself each time and make sure what you're posting is actually beneficial to the forum. Which means cutting back on the random comments.

Yeah, I know, I like random comments, too. But sometimes, they simply aren't necessary. And if all you've got is a random comment, and not anything that actually applies, then usually it ends up being a worthless post.

If, because of your activity, you simply outright left, then the problem with that would be that you didn't actually learn anything. Something was wrong, and so you bailed. Instead, this whole social experiment is designed so that for the people who are in it, it actually helps shape them and make the better, and polish them, bit by bit. Bailing means that nothing happens as a result. Or at least not nearly as much as it should.

Mistakes are human. After all, "the best of men are men at best." However, I'd like to say a word to everyone ELSE reading this: Work through it. Accept that people are going to fail, and simply see how you can correct it and gently bring it back in line, rather than...pretty much any thing else. You know what I'm talking about. And yes, we've all done it. Again, what is this forum about? Improve.

If you'd like to stick around, I'd be glad to help you, and make sure that your stay here is an enjoyable one, and that all parties are helped as a result. We'd like to make this forum an inclusive one, but some people simply exclude themselves, and there's nothing we can do about it. But if you want to stay, then you need to make sure you realize that everybody including yourself has weaknesses and faults, and that those are be built upon and strengthened. Not merely going with the flow.

So you in or what?

'nuff said.
2008-10-25 07:39:00

Author:
ConfusedCartman
Posts: 3729


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