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delete this if you want, mods. i know sadness is bad for the forum, but ****it I have to get this out.

dad passed away. yesterday, in fact. overdose. I was gonna help him once I was done with school. I could help him like he helped me. in times of rain he was the sun - his hands were god rays piercing through the cracks to comfort me.

I'm not sure what to feel. Sad at myself, angry at fate, or just stupidly amused by my whole life.

lbpc: the game work, from me, stops now. i can't do anything for it anymore. even more useless now.

...

yeah.
2010-08-08 18:44:00

Author:
SLS10
Posts: 1129


My condolences... Must he rest in peace.2010-08-08 18:48:00

Author:
moonwire
Posts: 1627


D: Sorry to hear that Don't worry about LBPC TG, I can probably fix level 2 some other way... but yeah, sowweeee D:2010-08-08 18:49:00

Author:
RockSauron
Posts: 10882


Im really sorry2010-08-08 19:13:00

Author:
shadow3596
Posts: 2442


Wow... So Sorry for you man... I even don't know what to write here...
Well, i am very sorry to hear that and if you need anything, just ask...
2010-08-08 19:14:00

Author:
Takelow
Posts: 1355


umm.. I don't know what to say other than that I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't believe it, we don't know each other in real life but dang do I wanna do something...
Yeah... so may he rest in peace and if you need anything, you know we'll support you.
2010-08-08 19:17:00

Author:
Chump
Posts: 1712


I am so sorry to hear of your loss SLS10 You too are a ray of sunshine in a sometimes gray world and you've brought a lot of laughter and fun to the lBP community at large and I will miss hearing your wonderful voice full of enthusiasm and jovial good humor.

My condolences to you and your family. Hang in there
2010-08-08 19:17:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983


Oh man.. I am so sorry to hear that. The worst news is the passing of a loved one, especially due to such terrible circumstances. I only hope you can gain some strength during this horrific time from your family. I've found that if you can be there for them, they will in turn give you strength.

All the best to you and your family...
2010-08-08 19:45:00

Author:
jwwphotos
Posts: 11383


Wow, so sorry man. My condolences. 2010-08-08 19:48:00

Author:
iGotFancyPants
Posts: 1355


I am so sorry SLS, you know you have everyone on LBPC to support you in your time of need.
My condolences to yourself and your family, I hope you find slight solace in the fact you will always have people to help and support you.
2010-08-08 19:56:00

Author:
Fish94
Posts: 554


I cant imagine how you must feel right now, I am very sorry to hear it. I really wish there is something I can do.
If you need someone to talk to you can always message me about it.
2010-08-08 20:10:00

Author:
Unknown User


Hey man im so sorry to hear that, I know how you feel im grandmother died a month ago 2010-08-08 20:18:00

Author:
Arnald23
Posts: 1843


so sorry to hear that SLS
My condolence to you and your family.
2010-08-08 20:35:00

Author:
Joey
Posts: 758


Really sorry to hear your sad news. mrv and I send our condolences to you and your family.2010-08-08 20:45:00

Author:
mrsvista
Posts: 755


Awww man. Something like this takes a lot of heart to speak out to a community such as ours. You definitely have my thoughts in your loss.2010-08-08 21:02:00

Author:
gevurah22
Posts: 1476


Oh, my goodness. D:

I'm so so sorry for your loss.
If there's anything I, or any of the community can do. Remember. We're here for you.

Ignore the smiling cat in my signature and avatar >_<
2010-08-08 21:33:00

Author:
Plasmavore
Posts: 1913


Please accept my sincere condolences.2010-08-08 22:23:00

Author:
IceMaiden
Posts: 1057


This may be just a post in a forum, but you have my sincere condolences. I hope you and your family are ok and get through this tough time. I too lost a family member last year. It's a strange thing that no-one can explain.2010-08-08 22:55:00

Author:
Mr_T-Shirt
Posts: 1477


Greif is a burden all of us must bear at some point in our lives, I am sorry it has come upon you premeturely.

I'm not going to lie to you, this will be a hard time for you and the rest of your family. Just remember you will still have the support of friends and family around you, do not try to bottle up your emotions, remember the good times you had together and be there for the other people around you that this has affected.

My sincere condolences
2010-08-08 23:39:00

Author:
Strangepom
Posts: 445


Sorry man, I can't imagine how painful that must be. I wish you all the best.2010-08-09 00:12:00

Author:
olit123
Posts: 1341


More condolences here... I cant even fathom what this must feel like. Forum members are here for you but spending time with your family is definitely the best for now.2010-08-09 00:18:00

Author:
monstahr
Posts: 1361


Thank you for taking the plunge and posting. It does introduce a powerful perspective and reminder to everyone to hear this kind of news. I'm so sorry about what happened. There's been some history of substance abuse in my family and among some of my very best friends. It's a shock and an ungodly shame when it takes someone's life. Hang in there. It sounds like you had a good relationship with him, which is a wonderful thing. My advice is, as others have said, to try and connect with loved ones. You're not alone, it's healthy to share your grief with others who cared for him. Good luck, and you have my condolences.2010-08-09 08:06:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937


I'm sorry for your loss. You have my sincere condolences as well.2010-08-09 08:15:00

Author:
bonner123
Posts: 1487


I'm also sorry for your loss. I wish you the best of luck, and I also recommend spending time with your loved ones2010-08-09 18:01:00

Author:
Testudini
Posts: 3262


I am so very sorry to hear your news. Losing a parent is never easy but it is even harder for someone who is still young like you. Try to remember the good times you obviously had with him and hang on in there.2010-08-09 18:41:00

Author:
shropshirelass
Posts: 1455


I just Dont know what to say... :I
Just that I'm sorry for your loss.
And um yeah... :I
I feel like Thats too short... :I
Just wow Thats shocking!!
Really sad for your loss!!
2010-08-09 18:45:00

Author:
Jovuto
Posts: 2345


I've just seen this now! I am so, so sorry to hear about your father. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, and as others have said, just hang in there as best you can. Sounds like your dad was a good father to you, so hang onto your good memories of him as they are what's most important and no doubt the real indicator of who he truly was.. Life wears us all down in different ways.

Take care, honey.
2010-08-09 22:31:00

Author:
BabyDoll1970
Posts: 1567


Life wears us all down in different ways.

That's the durned truth of it if I've ever heard it! Growing up means accumulating erosion and collecting myriad losses. Nobody gets around it. If you've never experienced a great sorrow and mourning, if your life has been comfortable and pleasant without a speed bump, it's worth knowing the piper comes to collect. Everyone pays. The big bills are the milestones in your life of the greatest learning. I'm sure this experience will make you wiser.

Take care, hopefully this thread has brought some modicum of comfort.
2010-08-10 05:58:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937


That hurts : I don't know exactly how you feel, and I'm not going to pretend and say that I do, because we have all experienced life in our own way, but I guess I can imagine a little bit of what you feel. My mother got cancer, she survived, but it still hurt very much. I'm very sorry for your loss. Spend time with your loved ones and remember the good times you had with him. Sorry 2010-08-10 07:30:00

Author:
Amigps
Posts: 564


Aww man, I'm really sorry to hear about that.
Unfortunately, stuff like this happens to people around the world every single waking moment of our lives.
But it's okay, because you have a full life left to live, and that's what matters. Keep your head high, and stay strong.
You'll get through this.
(:
2010-08-10 08:19:00

Author:
Mastadom
Posts: 195


Loss is always difficult. Hold onto the good memories and remember that with time it will feel more and more like he is a part of you. Not lost, just with you in a different form. Everything he taught you is yours now, and someday you will pass it on. In this way, we all live forever.
I hope his soul is at peace, and yours as well.
2010-08-11 15:59:00

Author:
SpeedyMcKnuckles
Posts: 331


sorry about your loss !!!!!2010-08-14 20:16:00

Author:
HollieCat
Posts: 197


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