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Online boyfriends and girlfriends
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| I just dont get this concept, i was on PShome the other day (this is my first mistake lol) i was at the mall where i met these two people, VickytheVampire and Vickysboyfriend, so i was chatting with them then moved away because they started talking dirty....but the chat log was still getting their messages :eek: so after the dirty talking ended they actually started sounding romantic, it was obvious they didn't know each other personally because they said they found each other on Home, and that was they only place they are with each other but i don't get it, why not just go out with a real person, excuse me if i sound mean but i think if you actually need a online lover, thats just sad but this was just a rant, feel free to leave comments and opinions  | 2010-01-04 01:51:00 Author: tforrest322  Posts: 3 |
| lol (I never 'lol', but 'lol' seems fitting here) | 2010-01-04 01:54:00 Author: jackofcourse  Posts: 1494 |
| lol (I never 'lol', but 'lol' seems fitting here) lol. I agree with jack. Anywho, it's very possible for people to have online relationships as well as ones in the real world. Maybe some people just can't get relationships in the real world and feel that online ones might fulfill that need? We won't exactly know why for sure unless we ask them. So go ask VampireBlaBlaBla! | 2010-01-04 02:07:00 Author: iGotFancyPants  Posts: 1355 |
| never know, i had a friend who had one (not THAT serious) and him and her ended up having a real life relationship. As for vampireface's case i think it's just a raging hormonal desperation. | 2010-01-04 02:14:00 Author: Littlebigdude805  Posts: 1924 |
| If anyone has ever heard of Club Penguin? Probably the game with the most Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing of all time. There would be people "kissing" (as they call it) by sitting in front of each other and typing sounds. AND it's a KIDS game! What is this world coming to.. | 2010-01-04 02:19:00 Author: FreeFlyzz  Posts: 265 |
| haha lol......... | 2010-01-04 02:38:00 Author: rseah  Posts: 2701 |
| wow...that's o.O are you serious? what kind of pleasure do you get out of that!!?! | 2010-01-04 02:44:00 Author: Littlebigdude805 Posts: 1924 |
The only reason it's ever happened is because people can't find anyone in real life  I was in a long distance relationship once, it didn't take me long to realise once it'd finished that it was just about the most pointless thing ever. It can seem fun for a while but that's pretty much all there is to get out of it, it wouldn't really be any different if you were really good friends with the other person. | 2010-01-04 02:46:00 Author: Dexiro  Posts: 2100 |
| its evil and creepy, thats what it is. it will rip your soul apart just like it did to my friend. its like a demon inside of you,slowly sucking your soul like a leech. i try to keep my friend Uhhhhhh5 away from it, but i cant protect him forever. people should just get real girlfriends and boyfriends, you don't know if thats a guy or a girl behind that controller. for future reference, stay away from it, you could get raped or murdered | 2010-01-04 05:25:00 Author: Charlemagne  Posts: 513 |
| I don't know as I've never seen one for myself that's actually worked out. You never know what it's like with people on the internet because they can think things through before they do something. When it comes with just going with the moment, you don't know how they'll act. Plus, you don't really know their mannerisms, and, as shallow as it sounds, how they look. It's very easy to lie over the internet. | 2010-01-04 05:36:00 Author: qrtda235566 Posts: 3664 |
| You mean like those people who got married on halo? lol | 2010-01-04 06:55:00 Author: Unknown User  |
| Depends on the circumstances, really. I mean actual internet dating is pretty big now. I personally can think of three happy marriages (i.e. people I know) that have come of that. As for distance relationships, I have a friend who married a guy from peru, and they had a distance relationship going over 6000 miles for a few years. I've also got a good mate who is dating a girl from Australia - she's moved to the UK now, but that was a few years of across the world dating. Neither of these had much to do with the internet, just saying as dex mentioned the futility of distance relationships. Interestingly, when people were talking about online friends (https://lbpcentral.lbp-hub.com/index.php?t=t=20549), the general concensus very much seemed to be that online friends were just the same as real friends, or in some cases even more significant. Because it's the "communication and conversations that define our relationships with others". Surely that's the core of a romantic relationship too. No? TBH, I don't see much difference between this and people who use the internet to form their primary friendships, because they get on better with those online "friends" than the people they know in real life. It's the same thing, there's just more stigma involved in adting someone through cyberspace. I'm not interested in it, but the reasons for that links in to the post I made in that other thread. I'd happily do a distance thing with the right girl, but I have no intention of starting a relationship over the internet as I don't think you can really form a bond in such an artificial environment. | 2010-01-04 11:00:00 Author: rtm223  Posts: 6497 |
| Depends on the circumstances, really. I mean actual internet dating is pretty big now. I personally can think of three happy marriages (i.e. people I know) that have come of that. As for distance relationships, I have a friend who married a guy from peru, and they had a distance relationship going over 6000 miles for a few years. I've also got a good mate who is dating a girl from Australia - she's moved to the UK now, but that was a few years of across the world dating. Neither of these had much to do with the internet, just saying as dex mentioned the futility of distance relationships. Interestingly, when people were talking about online friends (https://lbpcentral.lbp-hub.com/index.php?t=t=20549), the general concensus very much seemed to be that online friends were just the same as real friends, or in some cases even more significant. Because it's the "communication and conversations that define our relationships with others". Surely that's the core of a romantic relationship too. No? TBH, I don't see much difference between this and people who use the internet to form their primary friendships, because they get on better with those online "friends" than the people they know in real life. It's the same thing, there's just more stigma involved in adting someone through cyberspace. I'm not interested in it, but the reasons for that links in to the post I made in that other thread. I'd happily do a distance thing with the right girl, but I have no intention of starting a relationship over the internet as I don't think you can really form a bond in such an artificial environment. All of this is pretty much spot on. However, from reading the OP, I think in that particular case my 'lol' reply is pretty apt and sums these strange people up! | 2010-01-04 16:40:00 Author: jackofcourse Posts: 1494 |
| mostly are the boyfriends 40 year old guys and the girls 14 :kz: and thats thust creapy youknow | 2010-01-04 16:50:00 Author: Unknown User |
| You get all the arguments and none of the...fun... | 2010-01-04 16:55:00 Author: Unknown User |
| You get all the arguments and none of the...fun... that sounds funny  | 2010-01-04 16:58:00 Author: Unknown User |
| its evil and creepy, thats what it is. it will rip your soul apart just like it did to my friend. its like a demon inside of you,slowly sucking your soul like a leech. i try to keep my friend Uhhhhhh5 away from it, but i cant protect him forever. people should just get real girlfriends and boyfriends, you don't know if thats a guy or a girl behind that controller. for future reference, stay away from it, you could get raped or murdered Slight over reaction... I do find it weird people having a girl/boyfriend in a game. I once saw a littlebigplanet level saying i need a new boyfriend and it described all the kind of things they want in there new boyfriend... all i could do was lol at it. | 2010-01-05 18:50:00 Author: Doopz  Posts: 5592 |
| Slight over reaction... I do find it weird people having a girl/boyfriend in a game. I once saw a littlebigplanet level saying i need a new boyfriend and it described all the kind of things they want in there new boyfriend... all i could do was lol at it. everybody does | 2010-01-05 21:32:00 Author: Unknown User |
| If anyone has ever heard of Club Penguin? Probably the game with the most Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing of all time. There would be people "kissing" (as they call it) by sitting in front of each other and typing sounds. AND it's a KIDS game! What is this world coming to.. Exactly they are just little kids who think they are really cool kissing eachother in the game | 2010-01-05 21:37:00 Author: Snrm  Posts: 6419 |
| lol nothings wrong wit having a online girlfriend/boyfriend, cuz i hav a real life boyfriend sammii but also hav an online one, my online bf jake has a real life girlfriend too and even tho i do love jake i love my real life boyfriend even more... so that dusnt make it weird too me its just dating guys ^.^ even tho we doo love each other online but you know when you deeply inlove with someone online there might be a chance you 2 can meet up, ive seen it on youtube, its true =) tho im jus saying, its not a bad thing, its actually fun too, i mean sharing your love to someone who makes you smile =P lol - eMoSkiiTTleS <33 | 2010-01-08 08:59:00 Author: EMOskittles<3  Posts: 10 |
| ^ That was painful to read. Punctuation is great ya know! Just look at snrm's sig... And i still think it's wierd. | 2010-01-08 11:46:00 Author: Unknown User |
| lol nothings wrong wit having a online girlfriend/boyfriend, cuz i hav a real life boyfriend sammii but also hav an online one, my online bf jake has a real life girlfriend too and even tho i do love jake i love my real life boyfriend even more... so that dusnt make it weird too me its just dating guys ^.^ even tho we doo love each other online but you know when you deeply inlove with someone online there might be a chance you 2 can meet up, ive seen it on youtube, its true =) tho im jus saying, its not a bad thing, its actually fun too, i mean sharing your love to someone who makes you smile =P lol - eMoSkiiTTleS <33 thats just creepy 0_o. i invented a new word. quadgamist | 2010-01-08 11:52:00 Author: Charlemagne Posts: 513 |
| Dont believe everything you see on the youtube? ****it, how did I end up here? I am leaving. | 2010-01-08 12:15:00 Author: ButterflySamurai Posts: 98 |
| Yeah I guess I had one or two when I was young. Then I realized I'll never meet the persons in question, so a friendship works out better. | 2010-01-08 14:47:00 Author: ll_ye  Posts: 236 |
| Also, being called EMOskittles<3 makes me think you are wierd anyways. Not only can skittles not be emotionally challenged as they are inanimate (yet tasty) snacks, anyone who puts emo in their name, or calls themselves an emo, is infact not an emo. Emo's aren't emo to be emo, or at least they weren't. Now that is the 'cool' thing to be amongst all the little teenage girls and the guys who think it will help them pull, everyone wants to be 'emo'. Just like everyone wanted to be whatever the last thing was. Go listen to Fallout Boy and pretend your family hates you, and complain on your pc about your time using your PS3, and complain about how your life is so hard. I mean, look at those children, they get too starve! Aren't they lucky! Your life on the other hand, is impossibly sad. I mean, how can anyone stop you going to a party? How can one have the nerve! It pains me to think about it. Anyways, back to my point. I think you are wierd anyways, so your thought that not only can you have an online relationship that is as meaningful as a normal one, but that you can also have one WHILST going out with someone already, which once more, seems unlikely, you are one of the people who wants everyone to know that you are going out with someone, as if that makes you cool and that it makes you more mature... 'Look mummy, i can be in a relationship for 2 whole weeks!' ..I'm losing my train of thought here.... In short, I disagree with your post. Metal FTW. I have problems D: | 2010-01-09 00:42:00 Author: Unknown User |
| actually in america, being emo is one of the worst things to be. everyone thinks they suck ***. the coolest thing to be is dressing up like a wannabe mexican gangmember. even the people who arent mexican dress up like wannabe mexican gangmembers. its so sad that my race has been poisoned by a bunch of lil wayne fan idiots. but yeah emos seriously suck, there ARE sadder people in africa suffering from AIDS and starvation and to make it worse most of their parents are dead so yeah take that | 2010-01-09 03:44:00 Author: Charlemagne Posts: 513 |
| OK, well over here some people think it is cool, mainly the teenage girls. Mainly they also think FalloutBoy are good. | 2010-01-09 11:00:00 Author: Unknown User |
| This whole thing reminds me of Habbo Hotel where I used to visit when I was youger. Online dating is everyday life in there. People can make own rooms in the hotel and bunch of them is like: Find your true LOVE, the boyfriend/girlfriend of your dreams, blind date, etc... At least one time on every day someone asks you to start date with him/her. When you walk in the hotel you can see couples everywhere. I even happened to hear once when one couple was actually having a sex in a closet... It wasnt always like that, it used to be a good interactive chat alooooooooong time ago, but then something just happened, maybe teens became more stupid or something.. I dont know. | 2010-01-09 15:34:00 Author: Unknown User |
| The thing about the internet...anything can be faked. Anyone can be anyone, and make anyone think they're something else. If you get me. Love is something special, not to be thrown out to any random stranger you've never met, and probably never will. Frankly, it's sad. | 2010-01-09 15:42:00 Author: ARD Posts: 4291 |
| the thing about the internet...anything can be faked. Anyone can be anyone, and make anyone think they're something else. If you get me. Love is something special, not to be thrown out to any random stranger you've never met, and probably never will. Frankly, it's sad. exactly!!!!!!!! | 2010-01-09 23:08:00 Author: Charlemagne Posts: 513 |
| I'm marrying Sackgirl. | 2010-01-09 23:21:00 Author: BasketSnake  Posts: 2391 |
| Also, being called EMOskittles<3 makes me think you are wierd anyways. Not only can skittles not be emotionally challenged as they are inanimate (yet tasty) snacks, anyone who puts emo in their name, or calls themselves an emo, is infact not an emo. Emo's aren't emo to be emo, or at least they weren't. Now that is the 'cool' thing to be amongst all the little teenage girls and the guys who think it will help them pull, everyone wants to be 'emo'. Just like everyone wanted to be whatever the last thing was. Go listen to Fallout Boy and pretend your family hates you, and complain on your pc about your time using your PS3, and complain about how your life is so hard. I mean, look at those children, they get too starve! Aren't they lucky! Your life on the other hand, is impossibly sad. I mean, how can anyone stop you going to a party? How can one have the nerve! It pains me to think about it. Anyways, back to my point. I think you are wierd anyways, so your thought that not only can you have an online relationship that is as meaningful as a normal one, but that you can also have one WHILST going out with someone already, which once more, seems unlikely, you are one of the people who wants everyone to know that you are going out with someone, as if that makes you cool and that it makes you more mature... 'Look mummy, i can be in a relationship for 2 whole weeks!' ..I'm losing my train of thought here.... In short, I disagree with your post. Metal FTW. I have problems D: dude wut the hells wrong wit you? i mean cmon its for fun, i never said i wus cool O.o im not saying you should do it too, dont mind me ffs.... its wut i want and its non of your concern >.< if you dont like wut i said then just ignore **** -_- srsly.. eMoSkiiTTleS <33 | 2010-01-17 09:25:00 Author: EMOskittles<3 Posts: 10 |
| hey wait, im not emo!! >.> its what they call me at skool ffs! >=/ | 2010-01-17 09:27:00 Author: EMOskittles<3 Posts: 10 |
| Nothing wrong with me. I'm rather normal. What's wrong with you? You claim to be in 2 relationships, 1 real and 1 'cyber'. Kinda wierd, no? Also, the fact you made sure you proclaimed it on here suggests you want to get attention. Or somthing. | 2010-01-17 20:32:00 Author: Unknown User |
| Basically emoskittleslessthanthree, I think what our friend Alex is trying to get at is that coming on the Internet and stating on the how you have a real boyfriend and an Internet boyfriend is not really needed. Also, how would your real boyfriend feel if he knew you typed that? Kinda bummed out I guess. Then again from your name and punctuation (not an insult, just an observation!) I'd say your no older than 16 anyway so what the heck eh, do what you want. On the note of Internet relations; I've seen a few, one being my best mate and some girl from london, and they just don't work out. My mate actually went as far as meeting this girl in person, though after that things seemed to go a bit rubbish. You see, nomatter how well you think you know someone over the Internet, it can never display emotion and personality properly. Ofcourse I have nothing against dating sites and the like as many good relationships do form from them, but that's only when they meet in person and things then truly kick off. In terms of long distance relationships, that's all down to the couple. Obviously they have a better chance of working out when they've already been together a while before the seperation. That's the case with me and my girl, as I'm in 3rd year uni and she's in 1st (I'm in Wales, she's in England). We started going out a year before I went to uni and things have been great since. Difficult now and again due to the small distance, but generally all sound. | 2010-01-18 00:01:00 Author: ryryryan  Posts: 3767 |
| I dont really know about the boyfriends and things, but i do have a pretty good friend on the ps3, hes alot of fun i also dont have a lot of friends in real life, im kind of the weird girl, definetly not very popular, so its pretty cool to come home and just play a game with someone, and hes even helped me out when ive been depressed ^^ So i guess someone like skittles probably just has the same thing as i do, only they talk about different things xD and play different games! hahaha | 2010-01-18 02:49:00 Author: Minty  Posts: 29 |
| I dont really know about the boyfriends and things, but i do have a pretty good friend on the ps3, hes alot of fun i also dont have a lot of friends in real life, im kind of the weird girl, definetly not very popular, so its pretty cool to come home and just play a game with someone, and hes even helped me out when ive been depressed ^^ So i guess someone like skittles probably just has the same thing as i do, only they talk about different things xD and play different games! hahaha for me theres nothing wrong about been weird.. well its way more awesome to be weird.. than been like most of the ppl on earth for me Popular means. people that thinks they are the coolest thing on the world and have lots of friends just like them but at the same time they are.. (wont say the word) ,ignorants jerks .. that think they can do whatever they want mhhm anyways i always ignore themanyways.. about Online boyfriends and girlfriends its just ridicule.. ive had so many friends online with gfs and bfs online.. and its always a HUGE drama.. mhhm they broke up.. then get together.. broke up again get together again.. hmm its really....... ya know | 2010-01-18 05:11:00 Author: Joey  Posts: 758 |
| Anyone wants a cookie? :3 | 2010-01-18 06:49:00 Author: Yarbone  Posts: 3036 |
| hey wait, im not emo!! >.> its what they call me at skool ffs! >=/ im not sure if its good to say ffs at a E rated site Think about the poor Children XD | 2010-01-18 07:22:00 Author: Snrm Posts: 6419 |
| Well this thread going downhill. *Happy face!* | 2010-01-19 22:33:00 Author: FreeFlyzz Posts: 265 |
| lol? onlie girlfreinds? thats weird and no life eh? | 2010-01-25 22:30:00 Author: huntr_Danny2  Posts: 31 |
| I think its not a good thing, not really. Not a lot of good can come of most of them. If you really want one, just go and ram your way into a clique. If they like you, they won't care. If they don't like you, well it doesn't matter that you shoved your way in - they wouldn't have liked you anyways. In short, there's always someone similar to you in the halls of academia or at work (although having relations(hips) in the workplace is usually bad), church... I think it's becoming more prevalent because you're not putting yourself out there. not really. If you were, you'd know there was a risk, socially, emotionally, psychologically (, monetarily)...with most online stuff via myspace, home, etc, there's none of that. In real life however, there is. | 2010-01-25 22:54:00 Author: Ragfell Posts: 729 |
| god, memories of me, club penguin, and being 12... | 2010-01-26 00:12:00 Author: Voodeedoo  Posts: 724 |
| god, memories of me, club penguin, and being 12... Wow im glad i never played club penguin when i was 12 XD actually i never have played club penguin like ever | 2010-01-26 00:17:00 Author: Snrm Posts: 6419 |
| feeling guilty? sound like you over compensating, something you wanna get off your chest? | 2010-01-26 01:07:00 Author: Littlebigdude805 Posts: 1924 |
| The thing about the internet...anything can be faked. Yep like i can say im a hot 20 year old blonde girl that is single on e harmony and i will get like 100 mails XD | 2010-01-26 01:18:00 Author: Snrm Posts: 6419 |
| Voodeedoo...I feel your pain. o_o | 2010-01-26 01:36:00 Author: FreeFlyzz Posts: 265 |
| yep like i can say im a hot 20 year old blonde girl that is single on e harmony and i will get like 100 mails xd omg rly? Will u go out with me? | 2010-01-26 07:07:00 Author: Unknown User |
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