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My dads gone...

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Lately my dad died and has been really tough on me. The last time I saw him he was barely able to remember anything anymore and was begging to let him go. This was at his house with wife. It was very stressful since he kept yelling my name and telling me to follow him. I have never liked the person he married but my Mom has been very nice to her but before he died his wife started to be terribly mean. Anyways days after I last saw him he died. It was especially saddening since the person he was married to told us a day after he died that he he died. My brother took this especially hard and I may never forgive her fpr this, EVER. He was cremated before we could see him one more time. We went to his menorial and everything up was of HER and my dad. I was so mad I felt like punching her.... Anyways this has been very hard on me and my brother and my Mom.2009-11-29 02:41:00

Author:
Mod5.0
Posts: 1576

i'm so sorry for your loss Mod 5.0 i wish i could help you, losing someone is so hard, i wish i could try and make you feel better and give this big uplifting speech,but i can't all i can say is how sorry i am, and hope that you can begin to feel better.2009-11-29 03:13:00

Author:
Frank-the-Bunny
Posts: 1246

Thank you kmills I appreciate it.2009-11-29 03:18:00

Author:
Mod5.0
Posts: 1576

Mod, I am so sorry for your loss. I can only offer my most heartfelt condolences to you, your mother and your brother. I must say that I admire your strength in all that you have been going through with your ailment and now the loss of your father. That is quite a lot to be resting on such young shoulders, yet you are always so cheerful, friendly and giving of yourself. I really wish there was more I could offer you than mere words. Hang in there Mod, I'm sure the good people of this forum are here for you and I hope you feel free to reach out to your friends if you need someone to hold you.2009-11-29 03:32:00

Author:
ScoutsBoo
Posts: 63

I'm so sorry this happend. It's never easy to loose family and it's even more sad because of the circumstances surrounding this time of grief for you. My condolences is all I can say really about this and that I hope you take comfort and strength from your mom and brother. You are in this together and talking about how your feeling can be the best way to help understand how to keep going when something like this happens. Hang in there and know the community is here if you need us. 2009-11-29 03:40:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983

Oh my goodness. I am so sorry for your loss Mod. Our paths have never crossed, but I just had to come in here and extend my warmest sympathies to you, your mother and your brother. I hope that the empathy felt for you by this community will provide you some comfort during this difficult time.2009-11-29 03:58:00

Author:
Kendan
Posts: 56

wow sorry to hear that dude just to let you know im here for ya dude2009-11-29 04:04:00

Author:
rseah
Posts: 2701

This is awful news!! I am so sorry to hear this as it just broke my heart.

I cannot fathom the pain and suffering of losing a father this way. I feel so much sorry and sadness for you and hope you can find peace, comfort, and strength with your brother and mother. They are your family and what is most important in this time of sorrow.

Regardless of whatever ills that have come your way during this time, I hope you can remember the good times with your Dad and honor him and find solace with the good memories. It might be in those thoughts that you find the most strength.

If you need to talk, please do not hesitate to look us up. We are here for you.

Bless you all. 		2009-11-29 04:12:00

Author:
jwwphotos
Posts: 11383

Dude... wow, I can't imagine this. Dude... whatever you need, let me know. One thing I suggest is that you don't feel hate towards your father's wife, even if she is a bad person, as hate poisons the mind and soul, and your father wouldn't want that. Try to remember the good times you've had with your father, and keep positive thoughts of him always.2009-11-29 04:13:00

Author:
Astrosimi
Posts: 2046

Thats so sad... I can't imagine your pain...
Life is so short, and the human existence so fragile...
I have never felt this pain. I hope you can cope with your loss.		2009-11-29 04:20:00

Author:
chezhead
Posts: 1063

Terrible news. . . I'm so sorry for your loss.2009-11-29 05:28:00

Author:
squirlin
Posts: 224

Hi there Mod... I am so, so sorry to hear about your father, and the tragic circumstances that followed. It's natural and completely understandable to feel the way you're feeling right now. What I hope for you and your family is that, in time, the bitter memory of his memorial service will be overshadowed by all the good memories you've had with your Dad over the years, and the knowledge that he loved you and you loved him. That's what's important - the love - because that's what lasts, and it's all yours.

Take care of yourself and your Mum and brother. You'll be in my prayers.		2009-11-29 05:35:00

Author:
BabyDoll1970
Posts: 1567

I really don't have anything to give you but my condolences, for as little as they are worth. I assume I'll have to bury my own father one day assuming I don't fall first.

As far as I understand, it's rarely an easy thing. You have my respect.		2009-11-29 05:46:00

Author:
Jagrevi
Posts: 1154

I am so very sorry to hear the news about your father. To lose a parent at your young age is really hard and I can?t begin to understand what you must be going through. You have my deepest sympathy. As the others have said the important thing is to try and remember your father in the good times. Hang in there and I hope you, your mother and brother find comfort and strength in each other.2009-11-29 09:06:00

Author:
shropshirelass
Posts: 1455

Wow man, I'm really sorry. I saw that post you made a few weeks ago about it, and really hoped that it wasn't true.

I can't bare to think about loosing one of my parents, I don't know what I would do. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I'm really sorry.

Try listening to some LBP music to cheer ya up.
http://littlebigplanet.com/en-gb/media/music		2009-11-29 09:30:00

Author:
olit123
Posts: 1341

Mod, I'm sorry to hear of your dad's passing and the sorrow that you've expressed to us here especially affecting your young heart beyond what is common in such cases. I venture to say that relief is not possible, except with time. I hope you continue to have the love and support from the people most close to you, your friends and family. I'm so sorry for your loss.2009-11-29 10:40:00

Author:
SHENOA77
Posts: 184

Would just like to offer you and your family our condolences, at this sad time, from mistervista and myself.2009-11-29 10:58:00

Author:
mrsvista
Posts: 755

Mod, I'm very sorry to hear this news, and I offer you my deepest sympathies. To lose a father is a terrible thing to have to go through so young, but even more so in the circumstances you've explained.

I don't know where you're finding your strength, I really don't.

I'm so sorry.		2009-11-29 11:58:00

Author:
MrsSpookyBuz
Posts: 1492

That's awful to hear mod5.0! My condolences to you and your family.2009-11-29 12:18:00

Author:
Mother-Misty
Posts: 574

Terrible news....
im so sorry
2009-11-29 13:20:00

Author:
Unknown User

That's awful Mod. I lost my father last year, 11 days before I turned 17. Not seeing yours though...that's awful. Remember the good times. Not a lot else to say...
Hug?		2009-11-29 13:36:00

Author:
adlingtont
Posts: 321

Thank you for all your comforting posts. It means a lot to me.2009-11-29 17:27:00

Author:
Mod5.0
Posts: 1576

Mod5.0, I am terribly sorry to hear your news.
I lost my mother 4 years ago to a brain tumor, so I know what it's like. All too well.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this sad time.		2009-11-29 17:46:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Just discovered this thread, So sorry for your loss, Mod!!
My condolences to you and your family.		2009-11-29 17:52:00

Author:
Zwollie
Posts: 2173

ouch, I know how it feels to loose your father.
my condolences.

I lost mine when I was 6 months...some drunk guy T-boned him when he was coming home from work...it still makes me cry when I think about it... 		2009-11-29 18:04:00

Author:
oldage
Posts: 2824

The only advice i have. While the sadness becomes to strong, listnen to upbuilding music. I would recomend michael jackson beat it man in the mirror and earth song.

Or why not one of " dr bombays songs " XDD		2009-11-29 20:33:00

Author:
Unknown User

Mod, please accept my heartfelt condolences.

I too have lost my father, I loved him so much and still do. I know he loved me and nothing can take that away. I also lost my mother a long time ago. I understand some of your pain and offer my support to you along with the rest of this community.

I can't wrap my arms around you and make it all better, only time will do that and the love of your mum and your brother.

Icey		2009-11-29 21:24:00

Author:
IceMaiden
Posts: 1057

So sorry man justs recently me and my grandad had started getting a lot closer to each other and last christmas eve we where all having dinner together and then i didn't reliase that would be the last time i saw him i didnt se him for another 2 months when he gfot rushed into hospital after having a heartattack and now he's gone. but anyway not trying to steal the spotlight from you or anythign i just guess it's one of the factors of life but ye man i am so sorry to hear that.

between you and everyoen else who's reading this post his wife seems really mean i woul've hit her so hard she would've been knocked out.		2009-12-01 09:30:00

Author:
lbpholic
Posts: 1304

Aww mod I know how you feel. Keep your chin up2009-12-01 13:54:00

Author:
CreateNPlay
Posts: 1266

I'm so sorry to hear that man

I don't know what to say, but I sincerely hope you can adjust.		2009-12-03 01:10:00

Author:
Incinerator22
Posts: 3251

What's with the influx of death threads.. LBPC goes emo when i get banned... I mean, i've had people killed/pass away (and no, i don't mean I killed them...) but i never felt the ened to create a thread about it? Call me harsh (and yes, you will, don't deny it), But i ahve never seen the reason for this kind of thread? Maybe people cope with things differently; i don't like talking to anyone about stuff like this...

Oh well, regardless, don't pay attention to any of that, i hope you're ok, it;s hard, but you'll get through it (Y)		2009-12-03 23:12:00

Author:
Unknown User

Thanks for the for all the comments on this subject.

@Iron: It's to tell people what I have been going through and I may not be myself.		2009-12-03 23:39:00

Author:
Mod5.0
Posts: 1576

Thanks for the for all the comments on this subject.

@Iron: It's to tell people what I have been going through and I may not be myself.

Fair enough; and PLEASE, do not misinterpret that, i wasn't having a go at you, i understand exactly how you feel, i'm just saying that i personally don't see why it would be posted, because as i said, i guess each person does things differently. You get support from posting on here, and that's good, definitely don't have a problem. However, i prefer to keep things to myself... no one find out unless they really notice something is wrong.... So yeah, i wasn't having a go at you, i'm sorry about what happened, as i said.

---------------- Now playing: Avenged Sevenfold - Chapter Four (http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/avenged+sevenfold/track/chapter+four) via FoxyTunes (http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/)		2009-12-03 23:43:00

Author:
Unknown User

Oh its ok I didn't find it offensive I was just explaining to you how I felt about this matter.
No bad feelings.		2009-12-04 00:03:00

Author:
Mod5.0
Posts: 1576


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