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My cat Otis ... And my NEW cat Ghost!

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I wasn't going to post anything here, but I'm still feeling absolutely awful.

This weekend, my father took our 19 year old cat Otis to be put to sleep. It was possibly one of the saddest moments of my entire life, and I'm saying that even after watching my mother die of brain cancer three years ago.

As many of you know, I'm usually the happy, goofy member of the forums who pops in with something silly to say, but I'm just feeling really really terrible.

I could use something, anything, to lift my spirits. If anyone's got any funny stories to share or anything, please, feel free.

Here's my cat Otis as a kitten. This is how I like to remember him.

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Edit: About a week or so later, I ended up adopting a new cat from a shelter. His name is Ghost. He and 15 brothers and sisters were taped inside of fruit boxes and left on the side of the road in the august heat. Here's a video of him. Sorry for my annoying narration:

uR0hoyX8GnE		2009-08-24 14:24:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Aww he's adorable <3

I'm so sorry that he has to be put to sleep

I wish i could come over there and give you a hug to make you feel better!		2009-08-24 14:31:00

Author:
Dexiro
Posts: 2100

i'm soo sorry that happened, wish i could do something to help2009-08-24 14:33:00

Author:
Frank-the-Bunny
Posts: 1246

A few years ago, my mom put our 17 year old cat Chester to sleep. Would have been three years ago since my brother is 20 and was the same age as Chester...

But yeah, it was hard, especially knowing that Chester had been with out family longer then I had. And a few years before that still, we put my dog Jesse to sleep because he had Cancer and was slowly dying anyway

Yeah... it's always tough, and I don't know what I can say to make it better 		2009-08-24 14:35:00

Author:
RockSauron
Posts: 10882

You have my sincere condolences. I've had four cats and it always hurts so much when the day comes to put them to sleep.

My first cat had a kidney or pelvic infection that meant he couldn't control his bladder, so we had to put him to sleep. I was seven at the time, and the day before Christmas my father took him to the vet. Worst Christmas ever.

My second, and the one I've been the most fond of since I really grew up alongside him, got an ear infection that spread into his brain. One night he couldn't move his front paws. As he was very fond of me, I took him with me that night and let him sleep in my bed. The next day, after coming home from school, my father had taken him to the vet and buried his remain right under his favourite spot in our garden.

The last two cats, we never saw again. I think one might have been taken by a lynx at our cabin, but we'll never know. The other was probably hit by a car. In fact, I strongly suspect it was the man living in the apartment above my father who ran her over. Either way, we'll never know, and it's just so hard not to have had the chance to take a proper farewell to someone so close to you.

By appearances and playfulness, Otis reminds me so much of my second cat. I know just how you feel know, and I know that it hurts like hell. All I can say is, take the time to mourn his passing. And remember, 19 years is fantastic for a cat. I bet he's had a wonderful time these years, being loved by you and your family.

I wish there was something else I could write to try and cheer you up, but the best I can do is share my experiences and memories.		2009-08-24 14:38:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

Sometimes talking about things that are upsetting you is the way best way to start healing. There are many who are here for you.2009-08-24 14:50:00

Author:
Lady_Luck__777
Posts: 3458

Sometimes talking about things that are upsetting you is the way best way to start healing. There are many who are here for you.

I know that, and I really appreciate it. The cat was very sick, and I realize that, but it doesn't make things any easier. I need to do something, though, because I can't continue feeling like this.

Thanks to everyone who has posted so far.		2009-08-24 14:52:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

My grandfather passed away recently, and he specifically asked for a line to be included in his eulogy: "Do not mourn my passing, but celebrate my having lived."

Other than that, though it doesn't feel like it now, it will get better in time. When I was seven, and my first cat had died, I cried so much. And I wished it was my father who hadn't come back from the vet. I tell you, when my mother divorced him, I decided to stay with my father.		2009-08-24 14:55:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

I've never been much of a cat person... until my wife and I visited a pet adoption and had two little kittens, a brother and sister, climbing all over us. We instantly fell in love and adopted both of them. That was about 3 months ago and even in that small amount of time, I've become very attached to them both. They have become a part of our family and I can't even imagine how sad I would be if something happen to them and they were no longer with us. This is after only 3 months! So, I can't even begin to fathom how I would feel after spending 19 years with them! It sounds like Otis had a long and wonderful life though, with a very loving family!2009-08-24 14:56:00

Author:
mrsupercomputer
Posts: 1335

I won't stay here long, as I don't think you like me very much based on the things you said in the other thread, but I wanted to express some condolence.

The baby kitten is adorable - and for the record NO ONE that I know of has argued in the last day for a universe that has forgotten the kitten.

Whatever the truth of the matter is, ghost, spirit, loving memory, or simply existing in the ever-real past behind us like a signpost you've merely walked past - I'm sure the cat has a great deal of love for you.

My best wishes, sincerely.		2009-08-24 14:56:00

Author:
Jagrevi
Posts: 1154

I'm very sorry to hear that, kappa. As people have said, it's a ripe old age for a cat, but that may not be much consolation for you at the moment.

If appropriate, I have a funny story about playing one of your levels (if it's inappropriate in any way, please let me know and I'll amend/delete)

Unbeknown to me, my husband had just finished playing A Crystal Cave in Autumn. We have a sad little system whereby we each write down levels that we've played. His note in the 'Levels to Play' notepad was as follows...

"Lisa, play Crystal Cave by that woman who does cartoons and stuff. I can't remember her name... oh... it sounds like the sportswear company where there's a man and a woman naked and back-to-back. Anyway, it looks *bleeping* great, there's loads of *bleep* to do, and there's a tram ride that actually *bleeping* works!"

Suffice to say, I knew it was you, and I knew it would be great. And it was.

Best wishes, and a big cuddle.
Lisa x		2009-08-24 14:57:00

Author:
MrsSpookyBuz
Posts: 1492

Well if he had to be put down im guessing he was sick?
Well its good then now he can be in a better place without sickness		2009-08-24 15:07:00

Author:
Snrm
Posts: 6419

I won't stay here long, as I don't think you like me very much based on the things you said in the other thread, but I wanted to express some condolence.

The baby kitten is adorable - and for the record NO ONE that I know of has argued in the last day for a universe that has forgotten the kitten.

Whatever the truth of the matter is, ghost, spirit, loving memory, or simply existing in the ever-real past behind us like a signpost you've merely walked past - I'm sure the cat has a great deal of love for you.

My best wishes, sincerely.

I do not dislike you. I've been off lately because of this, and i apologize. I guess I just needed to believe more than ever because of this.

and yes, peanutslave, he was rather sick. He would drink water and it would go right through him. He would cry for water and I would give it to him, he would drink, and five seconds later be thirsty again. Also, he had a terrible ulcer on his neck. 		2009-08-24 15:10:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

We seem to be both PM'ing and posting in thread, so I'll both PM and post my response. Because I'd like to make it publicly clear that ...


I do not dislike you. I've been off lately because of this, and i apologize. I guess I just needed to believe more than ever because of this.

You don't need to apologize, you honestly were offended and made it clear - there's nothing wrong with communicating how something makes you feel.

Given the emotional state I can imagine you're in, I'd say you did a pretty good job of keeping a level head.

I am truly sorry about your cat. I just wanted to make it clear that no one was arguing, ever, for your cat being "gone and forgotten".

I would say that time is relative and the past is just another country, but that's my way of looking at things, and you've very strongly stood up for a different one.

And the truth of the matters are kind of irrelevant as it relates to this - because we'd ALL agree that the cat, no matter what boundries people would agree or disagree on where and when it is, has a boundless amount of intrinsic love for you.

Don't let squabbles over scientific minutae about the forms of space and time deny that that cat loves you - you know love, and I'm sure that cat loves you REGARDLESS of space and time.

Feel better.		2009-08-24 15:20:00

Author:
Jagrevi
Posts: 1154

Whenever I get sad about something like this, I always try to think of my favorite song by soul asylum. My favorite line in the song is:

"Ridin' on an all night train through the crystal cave, where the moonlight shines, prepare for a brighter day"

I need to prepare for a brighter day right now more than ever.

You guys are all helping me, because you're making me think of the things that make me happy again. Thanks again, all of you.		2009-08-24 15:27:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I don't know if you're interested but there are some good websites. Two I have found helpful in the past were:
http://www.petloss.com
and
http://www.rainbowbridge.com		2009-08-24 15:39:00

Author:
Lady_Luck__777
Posts: 3458

I'm sorry for you...
I the word sorry can't help you but I don't know what else to say....
A funny story to cheer you up:
When I lived at a farm ( 3-4 years ago ) I had cat called cocoa.
He kept climbing up the tallest trees at the farm ( they were pretty tall ) and the first time she climbed but did'nt know how to climb back down....
So my family took all day to get him down.
We finally did but, two days later he climbs up another tree thats taller so his brother ( Bond )got him down.Sad Part: he climbed the tallest tree and we did'nt know were he went the next morning we checked....		2009-08-24 15:56:00

Author:
Mod5.0
Posts: 1576

Wow, man, I'm really sorry to hear that. My mum is an animal lover like you've never seen, so I've been through my share of pet deaths as well. We've lost a couple cats and a dog. It was hard, sure, but time heals all, as the saying goes. Now, whenever I think about them, I'm not sad, I just do my best to remember them as they were in life. It'll take some time, especially since it sounds like you were very close to this cat, but eventually you won't be so sad anymore. I hope I'm not coming off as insensitive or anything, cos I'm not trying to be. I'm just sharing my experiences and what happened. Trust me, you won't be sad forever.2009-08-24 16:55:00

Author:
dandygandy2704
Posts: 1002

It's a powerful thing to unconditionally love another sentient creature and it's a blessing when that love is returned. The price for that amazing experience and feeling is the loss and sadness that comes when they are gone but it's worth the price for me.

The only thing that worked for me when I lost my cats (3 total) was time. It does get better. You never loose the love you have for them and missing them is always there but it stops being so consuming and with time the good memories stop making you cry.... and you finally smile when you think of them again. Know that you and your father made one of the most difficult choices in life but from the sound of it, it was the most loving and respectful choice you could make for him.

Talk about it as much as you can - getting the feelings out can help and know that every day that passes will bring more comfort with it but it will take time.

Hang in there We're here if you need to share more.		2009-08-24 16:59:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983

XKappaX, Otis has lost his spirit inside his body, unfortunately he won't be able to play with you anymore and to be to your side when you're low (anyone that has a pet knows how much sensible they are), but his spirit is inside you, he will ever live by your side and in your countless fond memories that you had share with him.
Hopefully he will be somewhere where all the pets are chewing grass, and playing with balls and plush mices.

He resemples so much my Bastet, that this video broke my heart.
My sincere condolescence.

And I want to add...don't ever do or say something stupid like "I won't ever have another cat", it's not right for you, it's not right for Otis, and it's not right for the countless cats that are abandoned in the streets.
Another cat won't ever be like Otis but it will be another wonderful pet to love.		2009-08-24 17:37:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

I read a story yesterday about some cats that were found in Kutztown (pennsylvania) ... they were taped inside of a fruit box and left at the curb. A shelter rescued them, and they're calling them "the box cats" ... one of them is white (i've wanted a white cat for a long time), and I might try to adopt him and name him ghost. Of course I'll call him "Box Ghost".

The only thing I worry about is that my other cat, Shady, might not like to have a new friend.		2009-08-24 17:43:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

HI kappa,
sorry to hear about your cat. We lost our family dog this year and I can sympathise with how you feel.		2009-08-24 17:44:00

Author:
wexfordian
Posts: 1904

Losing an animal is by far one of the worst things in the entire world. I've lost many animals in my life, but this one was particularly bad for some reason. I think it was because I really wasn't prepared for this one. I knew he was old and probably sick, but I didn't know he was quite THAT sick.2009-08-24 17:46:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I have three cats, one of whom is 15 years old and I've had him since he was born. He's been with me since I wasyoung and he's closer to me than most people. He curls up in a ball next to my pillow every night, and I can't remember a day where I haven't devoted at least a half an hour to just laying down and playing with him. I'd be devastated to lose him. I can understand how you might feel and I'm sorry for your loss.2009-08-24 17:46:00

Author:
BSprague
Posts: 2325

Otis got quite disgusting looking at the end of his life, and my husband said he couldn't even look at him. I would always tell him he was beautiful and try to pet him as many times as I could.

Saturday, I knew my dad was going to do it, even though I tried to stop him, so I took Otie out to our front yard and let him walk around and smell the bushes. Then I sat with him and pet him until my dad was going to take him to get "evaluated" ... I knew he wasn't going to come home again.

You guys are all wonderful, you know that? Thank you all for your kind words. I realize I've been off the past week or so, and this is why. This is really a great community.		2009-08-24 17:50:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I'm terribly sorry to hear that, and the cat looked adorable. It's a shame it had to be put to sleep.

I know how it feels when a pet dies. I was REALLY upset when my fish died, so I couldn't imagine how upsetting it would be for me if a family pet died. (By "family" pet, I mean pets like cats and dogs, the ones you really do get attached to.)		2009-08-24 17:57:00

Author:
lk9988
Posts: 1077

I read a story yesterday about some cats that were found in Kutztown (pennsylvania) ... they were taped inside of a fruit box and left at the curb. A shelter rescued them, and they're calling them "the box cats" ... one of them is white (i've wanted a white cat for a long time), and I might try to adopt him and name him ghost. Of course I'll call him "Box Ghost".

The only thing I worry about is that my other cat, Shady, might not like to have a new friend.

What does make you think that Shady could not accept him?
It's very kind by your side to think about it.
I to have 2 cats, Bastet has been with my family from 11 years, then one day, when I opened my shop after the summer vacations 4 years ago, a cat entered the shop (a newspaper/magazine shop) and started to do his own business, like taking naps wherever and whenever he wanted, we gave him food, and he sometimes during the day came to visit us often.
After less than a week Loki was the new member of my family.
Bastet doesn't like him a lot, since he's younger and full of life and something he's annoying since he's too much affectionate and spiteful, while Bastet is the aristocratic selfish affectionate kind of cat.
But even in 80 square meter house they live well accordingly.
They hiss at each other sometimes, but one day that Loki got lost for one day (he managed to get into a closet in our terrace), Bastet cried and moaned since she missed him a lot.		2009-08-24 17:57:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

I think shady would be fine with the new cat. I just get overly worried sometimes. He got along fine with Otis and my other cat Nelson (who passed away 4 years ago) So I don't know what I'm so worried about. My husband is setting up an appointment so we can drive to kutztown and look at the box cats. I might end up bringing one home with me, because their story broke my heart.2009-08-24 17:59:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I am so sorry to hear that xkappax!
I lived this kind of situation several times and it was always a very difficult moment. All my minds are with you and Otis.		2009-08-24 18:05:00

Author:
Takelow
Posts: 1355

I read a story yesterday about some cats that were found in Kutztown (pennsylvania) ... they were taped inside of a fruit box and left at the curb. A shelter rescued them, and they're calling them "the box cats" ... one of them is white (i've wanted a white cat for a long time), and I might try to adopt him and name him ghost. Of course I'll call him "Box Ghost".

The only thing I worry about is that my other cat, Shady, might not like to have a new friend.

That's absolutely terrible, but someone did that in the apartment complex I live in. They were moving across the country, and couldn't afford to bring their German Shepard with them. So they did the rational thing to do, they put him in an abandoned garage and locked him in without food or water. Luckily, one of my neighbors found the dog before he starved to death and they actually adopted him and nursed him back to health.

I can't stand people that do disgusting things like that though. They could have brought him to a shelter, but instead, these barbaric pieces of trash locked him in a room to die. If I ever found out where they moved to, I would most likely burn their house down with them inside.		2009-08-24 18:15:00

Author:
BSprague
Posts: 2325

BSprague, I totally understand where you're coming from. When I found out about the box cats, I cried my eyes out and told my husband that I hope someone found those people and stuffed THEM in a box and left them out in the august heat. 2009-08-24 18:19:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I can't stand stories like that. It is the ultimate betrayal of trust imo. These animals give unconditional affection and trust and all they ask for is to be treated with respect and to have their basic needs met... although with cats that includes copious amounts of attention and freedom to run the house lol. We had a case here in WI where a father killed his family's dog and cat in front of his two children (I'll spare you the gory details) and that infuriated me more than anything had in a long time. Some people are just cruel and unfeeling and I can't stand that. Pets bring out our better natures but they can also expose other people's deepest flaws and inhumanity.

It seems like the box cats might be meant to be xkappax but even so there's no need to rush it if you don't want to. It took quite a while before I was ready to adopt after Merlin was killed. Then again - my friend who lost her cat of 17 years (Patches) Adopted 2 sisters (white shorthairs) the same weekend and it really helped her. Do what you need to 		2009-08-24 18:38:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983

the most I can do is look into the box cats. If they give me an interview, I think I'll drive down to Kutztown and see if I can make it work.

Larry is calling the people in Kutztown right now. We'll see what he says.

Larry is very allergic to certain cats, so we have to be careful that it's not a breed that he's allergic to. He's VERY allergic to Shady. 		2009-08-24 18:40:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Otis was a cute kitty! I've never had a pet long enough to know your loss. . . well technically I've had hamsters but given their lifestyles and lifespans, I doubt you could form the same kind of bond you could with a dog or a cat My kitty is around 10 years old now, he was found in a box with his brothers and sisters outside a grocery store. When we met he could fit in the palm of my hand, and just like otis in your video. . . he wouldn't shut up. i'm told he was the runt. Today he's a big grey and white fuzzball who still likes to rough-house and play like he did when he was truly a kitten. And he's always had this sound he makes when he sleeps. . . like an asthmatic hooting sound. . . that makes me laugh. Anyways I'm sorry for your loss, I hope perhaps this brought a smile to your face.2009-08-24 18:53:00

Author:
squirlin
Posts: 224

OH MY GOD MY HEART MELTED.

Sorry about your kitteh, about a year and a half ago my dog, who I had my entire life, decided to go psycho and bite me, my mom, my brother, and my dad. We figured out he had a brain tumor and he had to get put to sleep.
2009-08-24 19:03:00

Author:
TheMarvelousHat
Posts: 542

Has Larry managed to have a call yet?2009-08-24 20:15:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

I haven't heard anything yet. I'll let you guys know. ^_^2009-08-24 20:18:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Sorry to hear about Otis xkappax. I've never had a pet except a goldfish and a female hamster, which would take a dump every ohh I dunno 4 minutes? Which wasn't very lady-like if you ask me.

Anyways, the point is, we all lose a part of our family when the time comes, I know Otis is still there in spirit with you, and I know he doesn't want you to be sad, that doesn't mean you shouldn't let your feelings/emotions out, but with time you will become okay and only the good memories will stay.

Again, my best wishes to both of you.		2009-08-24 20:46:00

Author:
Whalio Cappuccino
Posts: 5250

AWWWWWwwww!! Reading this just broke my heart!!

I am so very sorry for your loss and not sure what words I could ever say to console, help, or help mend your breaking heart. I can only say I am deeply saddened by your loss and my thoughts are with you during your time of sorry.

Bless you all!		2009-08-24 21:06:00

Author:
jwwphotos
Posts: 11383

Little heart-breakers, pets. The best people in the world are animal-lovers. If you can't love animals, there's a cold place in your soul, that's how I look at it. No matter how evil a person is, if they're a true animal-lover, I have a soft spot reserved somewhere for them.

Like so many others, I've been through this too. It's an unbearable thing to have to go through. That's the price we pay for such wonderful, perfect companions. Animals make it so much easier to love them unconditionally than humans do. What's that quote? The average dog is a better person than the average person.

Someone posted a link to Rainbow Bridge... I remember reading that poem when I was a younger lad, and my first dog died. I have yet to lose a cat. We have a pretty old cat back in Texas, but last I saw her (October), she seemed as healthy as ever. But i don't go down there often. I hope I can see her again.

Tears! Tears and heartache!

Ever hear of the band A Silver Mt. Zion? I heard this music that was soul-wrenchingly sad in an huge, honest, meaningful way, and I had to find the story behind it all. You imagine it's some operatic story, some classic tragedy, something out of antiquity, a song about Orpheus looking over his shoulder.

It was about the death of a dog. All of the pain and sorrow and remembering in that music, all about a dog named Wanda. The album's called "He Has Left Us Alone But Shafts of Light Sometimes Grace the Corners of Our Rooms". That's a fitting title for the mood of a house slightly more empty after the loss of a little furry friend.

Obviously you'll never forget Otis, We never forget our little companions. These hard times are the dues we pay for being able to have the wonderful little stupids in our lives to begin with.

We're all with you on this one. You know the drill as much as anyone. Somewhere the hurting stops, but the happy remembering goes on.		2009-08-24 21:09:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

mrv and I are really sorry to hear about Otis. Thinking about you at this sad time.2009-08-24 21:11:00

Author:
mrsvista
Posts: 755

This song was written by Aaron, My Dying Bride's vocalist when his dog died.
I think I'll share it.
The song is called "For My Fallen Angel"

YouTube - My Dying Bride - For my fallen Angel		2009-08-24 21:18:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

thats bad he is so cute
3 years ago we got a cat but 1 month later he was no where
and we found him dead 		2009-08-24 22:01:00

Author:
Unknown User

thats bad he is so cute
3 years ago we got a cat but 1 month later he was no where
and we found him dead


That is so sad. I'm so sorry.		2009-08-24 22:07:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Awww he's such a cutey!

It's incredible how attached we get to our pets, especially when they are around for so long. A couple of years ago one of my cats, Lightning, died from a mixture of ailments. She was 19 at the time and I'm pretty sure the doctors gave her a couple of months to live about three years earlier, but she carried on going, dropped down to 2 and a half pounds but she was still happy and active and her personality was the same as she always was. Then one christmas my brother and I came home (we both lived quite far away at that point) and it was like she was holding out for everyone to be around before letting herself go.

We had her put down on xmas eve because she was really ill, she was collapsed in my arms, barely moving, but still purring. I can't really remember anything before she was around so it broke my heart when she died. I still think about her a lot, but the pain is gone and I just remember her fondly as she was and I have to remember that she was old and she was very happy for all those years.

I don't know if this will help at all, but I really do understand your pain and I can assure you it will subside. You will never forget him, I'm sure, but the memories will be much happier ones as time goes on.		2009-08-24 22:28:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497

Wow, Kappa, my prayers are with his soul and your family in these times... about a year ago I bought a white boxer. She'd been pawing at us through the cage, and of course we fell in love. She had some light gray spots so we called her Luna, spanish for Moon.... she's the cutest (and goofiest ) thing ever and I've grown to love her like a sister.... I can't begin to imagine what it would be like if she passed away, but I'm trying to now to sympathize.... as others have said, be grateful he lived so long... in a related topic, in the middle of writing this post my cousing IM'd me to suggest names for her kittens.... I think I got her convinced pretty good to name one of them Otis in remembrance

Take your time to recover Kappa... it must be difficult.		2009-08-24 23:22:00

Author:
Astrosimi
Posts: 2046

That is so sad. I'm so sorry.

thanks
but we later got a dog 		2009-08-25 07:41:00

Author:
Unknown User

My cat back in Texas, Beeb, she's a big fatty and she loves to flatten herself out on a wide variety of surfaces. She'll find a good surface - top of the trash bin outside, arms of couches and chairs, pillows, books, dogs - whatever she can find, and then splay herself out over them. Here's the old gal in action:

http://imgur.com/ixXIQ.jpg

Our current cat will say "wee-ooh?" and it's CLEARLY a question, and she'll stand up on hind legs and tap you really gently, but really rapidly with her front paw while you're sitting at the computer.

SOMETIMES this is when she's hungry and she'll lead you to her cat dish if you get up and say "WHAT??"

but other times?

Other times she just runs away really fast, so naturally you chase after her - and she'll get into one of her "safe zones". She has these safe zones where she considers herself safe from your chasing. It's not even necessarily hidden. It's in a shoebox lid; on a backpack; and on top of a grocery bag on the floor if there happens to be one around. she gets down on it and hunkers down real low. If you continue to try to get her she scolds you for breaking the rules: "WeeOH!!", enunciated exactly like a child might say "nooOO!"

Did Otis have any weird cat-personality quirks?		2009-08-25 11:08:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

Weird quirks? plenty.

When we first got him, he got stuck in the heat vent at the ASPCA and they couldn't get him out for an hour. That's when I should have known he was "different".

He used to climb my father's leg, and didn't understand when he was an adult and my father used to scream in pain when he did it.

He didn't meow, he just made this barking noise. It sounded like "erp" ... he meowed until he was about 1 year old normally, and then we got another cat and he stopped talking for 3 years. When he started up again, it just came out as "erp"

He loved water. We had him tested for all sorts of kidney problems and stuff, but there was nothing wrong with him. he just loved water. Especially when you put it in small white bathroom cups. We called them "drinks in a cup". Whenever you said "otie, want a drink in a cup?" and he would go crazy.

He was a really weird cat, but a great cat, also. Man, I miss him.

Edit: I'm going to look at the box cats on Saturday morning. I'll let you all know.

Edit again: Thanks to all of you. I'd hit the thanks button again and again if I could. This has really helped me. So, so so much.		2009-08-25 13:08:00

Author:
xkappax
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Hi xkappax..

I have finally brought myself to talk this through.. a bit.

Anyone who is a cat lover will understand the bond built with a cat. They are independant, yet hugely affectionate. They sleep for the majority of the day, and then expend all their energy in mini bezerk fits! They are like little children with their playfulness, yet seem intuitive and mature enough to understand and empathise with our moods. They roll around in the dirt..and then spend hours cleaning themselves. They are "just" pets.. and yet form an vital member of the family.

I loved our Tommy and his loss stabs deep.

Believe me, I feel for you and hope that time will help to ease the sharpness of your loss.

They will never be forgotten...

Rhy		2009-08-25 22:44:00

Author:
Rhyfelwr
Posts: 606

Of course, you guys have my condolences as well. For Tommy and Otie to go at the same time, maybe it was supposed to be that way... maybe the stories in this forum can help you guys heal, too.

I still feel horribly sad about Otie, but as I said earlier, I found out about those cats that were taped up in the fruit box and left to die. I think that this is fate, because I have room in my house for another cat, and now I can go and try to give one of those cats a home and give it a second chance. I've made the appointment for Saturday.

Rhyfelwr, Icey, again, you have my condolences.		2009-08-25 23:01:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Wow this thread kinda makes me want to go get a cat now... 2009-08-25 23:13:00

Author:
Whalio Cappuccino
Posts: 5250

Of course, you guys have my condolences as well. For Tommy and Otie to go at the same time, maybe it was supposed to be that way... maybe the stories in this forum can help you guys heal, too.

I still feel horribly sad about Otie, but as I said earlier, I found out about those cats that were taped up in the fruit box and left to die. I think that this is fate, because I have room in my house for another cat, and now I can go and try to give one of those cats a home and give it a second chance. I've made the appointment for Saturday.

Rhyfelwr, Icey, again, you have my condolences.

Rhy, Icey my condolences.
xK, I'm happy that you have an appointment for Saturday, sooner would have been better , anyway, I'm happy to hear that.		2009-08-26 06:38:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

I got a call back last night. I was told that the cat, which we're going to be calling Ghost, is very friendly and very good with other cats. They told me that if I bring pictures of my house with me (they want to make sure I live in a nice house that is good for the cat) then I can take the cat on Saturday. ^_^2009-08-26 13:16:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

That's fantastic news! I'm so happy for you! 2009-08-26 13:31:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

I got a call back last night. I was told that the cat, which we're going to be calling Ghost, is very friendly and very good with other cats. They told me that if I bring pictures of my house with me (they want to make sure I live in a nice house that is good for the cat) then I can take the cat on Saturday. ^_^

Amazing news! While you may have lost a dear friend, you will now be making a new one. 		2009-08-26 13:37:00

Author:
BSprague
Posts: 2325

That sounds awesome! Make sure to post pictures of Ghost once you bring him home!2009-08-26 21:30:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

Will he/she be named Ghost or Box Ghost? Either way, glad he's/she's getting a good home, and I'm sure he'll/she'll love it. You'll be making a new friend indeed!

By the way, is it a guy cat or a girl cat?		2009-08-26 22:05:00

Author:
Whalio Cappuccino
Posts: 5250

Will he/she be named Ghost or Box Ghost? Either way, glad he's/she's getting a good home, and I'm sure he'll/she'll love it. You'll be making a new friend indeed!

By the way, is it a guy cat or a girl cat?

The cat is a boy. I had a female cat when I was younger and she was extremely mean, so I always get male cats from now on.

It's funny you should mention whether it would be named Box Ghost or not. I've always wanted a white cat and I've always wanted to name it Ghost (i have a cat named Ghost in my animations) ... when I saw the ads for the cat, it said "Box Cat" and it was a white cat. I looked at it, read the story, my heart completely melted and I said "this is some sort of fate, because what drew me to this ad was the fact that it said simply "Box Cat" for the name.

To answer your question though, I always give my cats really long names and then shorten them, so I'm sure this cat will be called something like Boxworth Ghostington III or something, and then I"ll just call him 'Ghost'

Otis's full name was Otis Gravelpuk, because he typed "gravelpuk<eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee" on our old apple IIc computer. ^_^		2009-08-26 22:45:00

Author:
xkappax
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Otis's full name was Otis Gravelpuk, because he typed "gravelpuk<eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee" on our old apple IIc computer. ^_^

Then shouldn't his full name be "Otis gravelpuk<eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee"? I would wager YES!		2009-08-26 23:18:00

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Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

wow............................................... ........................... i deleted wat i originally wrote. but u have some things messed up2009-08-26 23:58:00

Author:
ViDi--ViCi
Posts: 123

I figured that since you posted baby Otis, I should post a picture of my favorite cat as well. He isn't nearly as cute, but he is still adorable. At 15 years old, he's gotten a little fat over the years, but you can't tell from this close-up shot of him. I tried to get a picture with me and him, but I'm not a professional photographer by any means. He likes to lie on his back and stretch out, but if you rub his stomach (fat pouch), he'll push your hand away with his feet. He'll kick my bed if I'm not giving him enough attention at night as well. Without further ado, I present my cat, Rasta!
http://i27.tinypic.com/28v92yo.jpg		2009-08-27 00:02:00

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BSprague
Posts: 2325

I figured that since you posted baby Otis, I should post a picture of my favorite cat as well. He isn't nearly as cute, but he is still adorable. At 15 years old, he's gotten a little fat over the years, but you can't tell from this close-up shot of him. I tried to get a picture with me and him, but I'm not a professional photographer by any means. He likes to lie on his back and stretch out, but if you rub his stomach (fat pouch), he'll push your hand away with his feet. He'll kick my bed if I'm not giving him enough attention at night as well. Without further ado, I present my cat, Rasta!
http://i27.tinypic.com/28v92yo.jpg

that is one wicked kitty-sneer!

I've got to go hunt down a good picture of Bitty.

EDIT: I'll do you one better. Here's a video of her as a baby. She's not as active now. Imagine something more along the lines of a bump on a log, and that's her current state of affairs.

You can hear me in the background playing one of the Ratchet and Clank games! This was over 3 years ago, so I don't even know which one it was.

YouTube - My new kitten		2009-08-27 00:04:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

that's sad he/she looks cute/handsome? lolz
but I had a ferret named slinky with kidney disease that had to be put to sleep... It was so depressing... It was hard because I didn't want her to suffer but I didn't want her to die either. But you did the right thing and shes now in kitty heaven. sorry if I'm being goofy and just making you sadder, I dont know what to say 		2009-08-27 02:59:00

Author:
Incinerator22
Posts: 3251

wow............................................... ........................... i deleted wat i originally wrote. but u have some things messed up

lol. Yes, I definitely have "some things messed up"

Thanks for posting all this stuff, everyone. I've really enjoyed seeing everyone's cats and hearing everyone's stories. It makes me realize that I'm not alone, and that time will heal all. ^_^		2009-08-27 03:09:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

lol. Yes, I definitely have "some things messed up"

Thanks for posting all this stuff, everyone. I've really enjoyed seeing everyone's cats and hearing everyone's stories. It makes me realize that I'm not alone, and that time will heal all. ^_^

ahem. ferrets too lol		2009-08-27 03:21:00

Author:
Incinerator22
Posts: 3251

Yes, ferrets too. Sorry. ^_^2009-08-27 03:35:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

[QUOTE=xkappax;273627]lol. Yes, I definitely have "some things messed up"

i wasnt talking about it in a good way or an i feel bad for u way...i was talking about something else... but im not going to get into this.		2009-08-27 19:12:00

Author:
ViDi--ViCi
Posts: 123

[QUOTE=xkappax;273627]lol. Yes, I definitely have "some things messed up"

i wasnt talking about it in a good way or an i feel bad for u way...i was talking about something else... but im not going to get into this.

i read ya loud and clear. you were flaming me, right?

I don't care if you were, or if you weren't. If the message was mean, glad you deleted it. ^_^ If not, that's fine too.		2009-08-27 19:18:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Ohhh I just found a picture of Lightning. This is a couple of months before she died. She was 19, weighed about 3 pounds, had hyperthyroidism, arthritis, a bad liver and was nearly deaf, but from the look on her face I think she's about to go start on the nextdoor neighbours cat Bless her


Edit - I just realised I took this photo the day before she died


http://www.lbpcentral.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=1186&stc=1&d=1251399699		2009-08-27 20:05:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497

Oh my gosh, that cat is just adorable! Thanks for sharing!2009-08-27 20:06:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that! D:

How about I show you a cute video of my kitten, Otis!

YouTube - Otis		2009-08-27 20:24:00

Author:
Kog
Posts: 2358

@Kappa, yeah she was lovely. And really really friendly to everyone - even cat haters lol.

Cog, I'm so stealing your cat!!!! Is that a recent video?


I really want to get myself a kitten But I'm not allowed pets in my flat, I live on the first floor and right next to 3 main roads 		2009-08-27 20:46:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that! D:

How about I show you a cute video of my kitten, Otis!


Look at that little crybaby going! Jesus!!
Awesome kitten. I love how obnoxious they are! They just whine and cry and run around, so much energy.

I'd never be able to get a kitten, Bitty would NEVER forgive us. We do want to get a second cat, but I'm thinking a 3-year-old male from the SPCA would probably be the way to go. A nice mellow cat who needs a good home and would love Bitty.

I'm just afraid Bitty would turn into a permanent grump if we got a second cat.


[quote=ViDi--ViCi;274085]

i read ya loud and clear. you were flaming me, right?

I don't care if you were, or if you weren't. If the message was mean, glad you deleted it. ^_^ If not, that's fine too.

Well played Kappa, well played!		2009-08-27 21:10:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

Teebonesy, I'm glad you said this, because I sorta feel the same way about shady. I'm kinda scared to death to get this other cat, because I'm afraid Shady is going to stop being nice. He's lived with two other cats before, though, so I'm hoping that this doesn't change the way he is bringing in the new cat.2009-08-27 21:16:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Neutered male cats, in my experience, tend to get all nurturing when they meet a kitten. Sounds strange but I've seen it quite a few times.2009-08-27 21:26:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497

Neutered male cats, in my experience, tend to get all nurturing when they meet a kitten. Sounds strange but I've seen it quite a few times.

I've heard similar - that male cats are way WAY easier to introduce to new cats than females!

Kappa, you're lucky yours is a male. Ours is a female, and she's VERY sheltered, and as a baby she was damaged goods. She's very clingy to us. We've had one run-in with another cat, when a kitten from down the hallway was wandering around in the building, and just came into our place and made himself at home. Bitty had a FIT. I mean she just had a FIT. Hissing, hiding, threatening to beat him up.

She was MAD!!

We used to have a male cat named Chuck, neutered. He used to grab Beeb, our big fat female kitty, and hold her down while he cleaned her. She'd lay down and purr and be content... The funny part would be if she tried to get away. He'd GRAB her with his paws and HOLD HER DOWN... Still got more cleanin' to do.

I've never seen in my own personal experience, a female cat behaving in this way toward other cats that aren't her own offspring. Male cats tend to be the most easygoing when it comes to meeting other cats and even, as rtm mentioned, nurturing.

So you're lucky that Ghost is just a baby female, and that your current cat is a male! It sounds like the perfect scenario to me.		2009-08-27 21:34:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

Oh my God that's the cutest cat I've ever seen...Oh I'm just making it worse. I know how you feel, almost every pet I've had with four legs has ended up being run over by a Tescos van. ****ing home delivery! But seriously, you have my sympathy.2009-08-27 21:36:00

Author:
KoRnDawwg
Posts: 1424

Seriously adorable kitten Cog! Teebonsy, the vid of yours is hilarious too. Looked as if she is pouncing on the dark squares of the flooring. lol2009-08-27 21:40:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983

I really want to get myself a kitten But I'm not allowed pets in my flat, I live on the first floor and right next to 3 main roads

We're in the same boat. My landlord won't allow pets, unfortunately. I spend every day browsing I Can Haz Cheezburger? and Cute Overload, but it's just not the same... 		2009-08-27 22:53:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

We're in the same boat. My landlord won't allow pets, unfortunately. I spend every day browsing I Can Haz Cheezburger? and Cute Overload, but it's just not the same...

Well I'm looking at moving into my own place soon(ish), so I'll be able to have pets, but it'll probs be another flat and I don't think it's fair on a cat if it can't come and go as it pleases.

However, this little lady died recently and I've convinced my parents to hold onto the terrarium so I may well be getting myself an iguana when I move

http://www.lbpcentral.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=1187&stc=1&d=1251413315


Back on topic (cats), I've just been looking at the dates on these photos. The one of lightning I posted earlier was actually 23rd of December - the day before we had to put her down She literally kept on going right until the end		2009-08-27 23:50:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497

That iguana is adorable! I had a desert iguana named Lee! He was 11 years old and died two years ago.

And Teebonesy, Ghost is a boy. Shady is a boy. So I'm hoping they don't kill each other. Otis and Nelson were both boys and they fought, but they tolerated each other. I'm hoping it's a situation like that.		2009-08-28 03:15:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Cog, I'm so stealing your cat!!!! Is that a recent video?
Nope, hes much older now and doesn't cry as much. 		2009-08-28 05:28:00

Author:
Kog
Posts: 2358

My brother just sent me this link and it's strange and cool at the same time. Thought I share.

http://www.rathergood.com/singing_kitties		2009-08-31 21:55:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983

Rathergood is fantastic! I still find myself humming to "Looking for my Leopard" (http://www.rathergood.com/looking) at the strangest times, and it's been ages since I last watched/heard it.2009-08-31 22:21:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

Sounds like you've been having it ruff, maybe go on holiday? I know its really sad when something dies.


Also think of happy times.		2009-08-31 22:26:00

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Adam9001
Posts: 744

aw sowwy to hear that..

http://i612.photobucket.com/albums/tt207/ktownknight/funny-pictures-cat-is-amazed1.jpg

http://i909.photobucket.com/albums/ac295/mrchooks/cat-busted-masturbating.jpg

http://i574.photobucket.com/albums/ss187/oliviajonas1992/Funny%20Cats/f-funny-cat-3539.jpg

http://i209.photobucket.com/albums/bb241/_Chuckaholic/funny-pictures-scared-cat-dolls.jpg

http://i247.photobucket.com/albums/gg160/Mar_Mar_013/Funny%20Cats%20and%20Dogs/cat.jpg LMAO

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt138/mewfan151/lolcats/NoSitz.jpg

hehe

http://i232.photobucket.com/albums/ee136/Dyllan93/Funny%20Cats/needz20decaf.jpg		2009-08-31 23:20:00

Author:
Joey
Posts: 758

Thanks everyone for the kind replies in this thread. I ended up going to Kutztown and adopting that white cat. I named him Ghost. He's deaf, which many white cats with blue eyes are. He's really friendly though. My poor Shady is scared to death of him, and I'm kinda afraid they aren't going to be friends. I know it takes some time. Shady is a scaredy cat though, and he's hiding under my bed. Ghost just wants to say hello to him.

Anyway, there's a pic of him in my albums if you want to see what he looks like. He's white with bright blue eyes. I hope that he and shady can get along though, or i'll have to give him up 		2009-09-01 02:32:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Thanks everyone for the kind replies in this thread. I ended up going to Kutztown and adopting that white cat. I named him Ghost. He's deaf, which many white cats with blue eyes are. He's really friendly though. My poor Shady is scared to death of him, and I'm kinda afraid they aren't going to be friends. I know it takes some time. Shady is a scaredy cat though, and he's hiding under my bed. Ghost just wants to say hello to him.

Anyway, there's a pic of him in my albums if you want to see what he looks like. He's white with bright blue eyes. I hope that he and shady can get along though, or i'll have to give him up

Well, my mom had bought a couple of kittens, and old Beeb, at a decade old, was NOT happy. The way my mom tells it, Beeb just about quit the family she was so upset. Hated the little rascals. It took time but she did warm to them eventually. She never bonded with them the way they bonded with each other (they're the same age, brought home at the same time), but she came to accept them.

I would say be patient, and make sure that Shady knows he's still loved, and hopefully in time he'll come around. I mean, think about people. Imagine if we all of a sudden had to join a house with a strange roommate and were forced to live with them. It would take a while before, at the very least, we got to know each other.

Once they get to know each other, maybe they'll become really close? I really hope so, and a part of me knows that Bitty would be like that too - she would be extraordinarily upset if we brought home another cat. So I have a vested interest in learning how this pans out!		2009-09-01 21:03:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

We had a bit of a confrontation today. We have a baby gate up and Ghost is confined to to the kitchen, foyer and back bathroom. Shady has the rest of the house. Shady heard me come home from work today and ran to see me in the kitchen. He saw Ghost through the baby gate and it was the first time there was no growling and hissing on his part. Ghost REALLY wants to be friends with Shady. Shady is scared to death of him, but he's getting a bit braver. They stayed looking at each other for a little while today and no one hissed! ^_^2009-09-02 02:07:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

We had a bit of a confrontation today. We have a baby gate up and Ghost is confined to to the kitchen, foyer and back bathroom. Shady has the rest of the house. Shady heard me come home from work today and ran to see me in the kitchen. He saw Ghost through the baby gate and it was the first time there was no growling and hissing on his part. Ghost REALLY wants to be friends with Shady. Shady is scared to death of him, but he's getting a bit braver. They stayed looking at each other for a little while today and no one hissed! ^_^

That's great! Was he hissing a lot before that? Bitty has had one real experience with another cat in this house, a tiny little orange RAPSCALLION who I named Davy Jones, Terror of the High Seas, and she hid and hissed and hissed. Davy was so curious, he wanted to meet Bitty and play with her and get close to her, but she was NOT HAVING IT, and he was smart enough to keep his distance.

If Shady's been doing the same thing and is already showing signs of opening up, that has to be a good sign!		2009-09-02 02:16:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

The baby gate is between the two areas of the house, so shady will walk up to the gate and look at ghost. Ghost will meow and make these cute chirping noises like he wants to meet shady. Shady will stand there, very wary and just watch him. The first day, shady hissed and ghost hissed and then peed he was so scared. The second day, ghost started chirping at shady and shady got scared, hissed and ran away. Yesterday, shady came down on his own and walked up to the gate himself, saw ghost, stayed there for a bit and then got really scared. ... it seems like it's been getting better.

A few people told me to take a shirt with my scent on it and pass it between the two so they get used to associating my scent with the other cat's scent and they realize that it's a friendly scent. I've been doing that. I hope it's working.		2009-09-02 02:21:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I have much sympathy for you... My family has a cat and it is fat but lovable.

I hope you feel better and never forget the moments you spent with him!		2009-09-02 02:31:00

Author:
chezhead
Posts: 1063

It sounds like they're slowly starting to get along. That tip about scent is a good idea. And like Teebonesy said, just remember to make sure Shady know he's still loved. I know having a new cat in the house takes some of your attention, but remember to give Shady some as well. Let them set the pace for getting to know each other, and I'm sure it'll work out.2009-09-02 14:33:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

Last night we decided to let them run around in the house together. It went really really well. Ghost came to shady and kept making the chirping noises at him. Eventually shady ran and hid, and then we went up and paid attention to shady. I'm going to let them run around together tonight and see if it goes a little better.

Shady looks at Ghost like he's never seen another cat before and doesn't know what to make of him. And it's funny, because Shady lived with two other cats almost his whole life until they passed away.		2009-09-02 14:37:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I'm happy that Ghost is now one of your family xKappax2009-09-03 07:02:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

I'm really sorry for your loss even if it's just a cat. But who am I kidding, we all love our pats really really much!

In a couple of weeks or months I'm gonna feel the same way as you(but I hope not). My dog is 14 years old and I noticed that sometimes he's to weak to walk 		2009-09-03 07:10:00

Author:
blizzard_cool
Posts: 752

I let ghost run around the house for most of last night ,and there was some fighting. Shady is so much bigger than ghost and is scared to death of him! What a big baby!2009-09-03 13:17:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Wow.... who would have thought this thread would continue to be this popular? You see, dog people? Kitties Rule!2009-09-03 13:28:00

Author:
CCubbage
Posts: 4430

I let ghost run around the house for most of last night ,and there was some fighting. Shady is so much bigger than ghost and is scared to death of him! What a big baby!

Ha, this used to happen with Lightning and Shadow. Lighning weighing in at 3-4 pounds would absolutely dominate Shadow, who weighs nearly a stone (he's not even particularly fat, he's just a big kitty)		2009-09-03 14:02:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497

yeah, shady's gigantic, but he's chicken. he's currently hiding under the couch. ghost is looking for him. lol.2009-09-04 01:30:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I have the same thing going on with my animals. I have a teacup Chihuahua, who is about half the size of each of my three cats. It doesn't really stop him from bossing them around though. 2009-09-04 01:46:00

Author:
BSprague
Posts: 2325

HAHAHA... Poor Shady!! Too funny.

He'll get over it, the little scaredy. Once they start interacting together more, try to get some on video!		2009-09-04 02:38:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

I should have taken a video yesterday, because it was absolutely the cutest thing I've ever seen. They were both making chirping noises at one another. My camera was all the way upstairs and I didn't want to run upstairs and scare them.

I have tomorrow off because I just got one of my wisdom teeth pulled, so I'll try to see if I can get some footage then. 		2009-09-04 03:34:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I love it when they chirp. My 14 year old cat (Tag) chirps at the carmel colored boy kitten (Buffy) when they pass each other in the hallway now. It's hands down the cutest sound ever.2009-09-04 04:16:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983

Ghost chirps all the time. He's just a happy cat. I was scared he wasn't going to be able to make any sound, because he is deaf. (For those who don't know, white cats with blue eyes are almost always deaf.)

I think that's part of the reason he's not afraid of anything. He can't hear anything that even sounds like danger. and he can't hear the awful noises coming out of shady when Ghost gets near him. 		2009-09-04 12:23:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

They were both making chirping noises at one another.


I love it when they chirp. My 14 year old cat (Tag) chirps at the carmel colored boy kitten (Buffy) when they pass each other in the hallway now.


Ghost chirps all the time.

Stop it, with your mentioning the chirping sounds. I so want a cat right now, and you're not helping.

On the other hand, great news xkappax. Sounds like Shady's getting more and more comfortable with having Ghost around.		2009-09-04 14:02:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124

It seems as though things are progressing in the right direction for your puss cats. Keep up the good work and hope your mouth isn't too sore!! 2009-09-04 14:18:00

Author:
mrsvista
Posts: 755

I feel a lot better today, but I still didn't go to work because I can still pretty much only eat milkshakes.

Concerning the cats, I'm just really worried about shady. He's just such a chicken. I just let ghost out to run around the house, and ghost just attacks Shady. (he's just playing) ... but shady is scared to DEATH of him. I hope that gets better, because shady's my little buddy and I don't like seeing him so sad and upset. 		2009-09-04 14:38:00

Author:
xkappax
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Poor Shady!! I was inspired by his plight last night with Bitty. Every night in front of our apartment building there's a black cat that visits. he's so ridiculously friendly, not scared at all of anything. always hungry, always assumes we have food. Can't be a stray though, he's way too chubby.

This is late, middle of the night, 3 a.m. I thought Bitty might be down for a little adventure, do something brand new for a change. she LOVES running out of the apartment. to her, the apartment is the matrix, and breaking out into the hallway is a mindblowing experience - all these other doors into other worlds! she gets slightly braver each time, venturing further and further out. she's been down one floor and all the way down the hallway on our floor.

So let's go on an adventure! I scooped her up and carried her all the way downstairs. I could feel her starting to squeeze on really hard, tensing up. I set her down in the lobby, but it was just too much for her. she just hid under my legs-tent (i was crouching) and stayed down to the floor. She was so scared. The black cat had gone too, so no meeting new cats across glass doors.

I thought meeting a cat outside of our apartment might be good, get her used to other cats without the territoriality she would have at home. But clearly we need to gradually work her way up to the lobby! that was just all too much at once. when i took her upstairs she was so glad to recognize the top flight of stairs she leapt from my arms and ran right up to our door. she's such a baby. where's that thrill of exploration?

You know what though, I have a theory that while these little adventures (this and going to the vet) are clearly terrifying to her, once she gets home afterward, she's all excited about it. In a really good mood, running around and playing, and talking her head off about the big adventure. she hates going on them, but I think afterward she loves it. I mean she's an apartment cat! She never gets out! She needs some changes, some adventures, she needs to meet a new kitty, and I think when it happens, as long as she gets to return home to safety and comfort afterwards, she loves it. Now that she's had one experience in the lobby, it won't be so traumatic to her. I'm going to keep trying, but just bring her down a little bit at a time, and only in the middle of the night so no people will come out. Maybe eventually she'll meet the black kitty and we can see what happens.		2009-09-04 20:36:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

I found this towel that has ghost's scent all over it. Shady was hissing at it this morning, but each time he didn't hiss at it, I gave him a treat. Now he's sleeping on it. I'm hoping there's still hope. He's just afraid of new things. It's amazing how cats are just like their owners sometimes. 2009-09-04 20:57:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

I see animal traumas every day... it creates such raw emotion in both the animal and their human counter-parts. Saying goodbye is never easy. They really are such very good friends. I am so sorry you lost yours... I have no doubt Otis had avery good run and while you may not like to hear that 'trite' notion at this time... after watching that video I can say I am envious of you getting to spend 18 years with those ever expressive eyes, and that black little beast! I feel for you and your loss very deeply but try to remember how lucky you were to have such a very long journey on parallel paths together.2009-09-04 21:09:00

Author:
Gravel
Posts: 1308

Oh crap...how the hell did I miss this thread??

I'm so sorry to hear about Otis. That really is tragic...

But if it's cheering up you want...um..that level you showed me is looking fantastic!
And, um, remember a while ago when we were playing a level, and there was a frog, and we stickered it? And it looked funny?
No?
Oh...I think it's in one of the photo frames in my clubhouse anyway...

Urk, I'm not good at this cheering up thing, am I?

How about this?
*makes balloon cat*
Ta-daaa!		2009-09-04 21:43:00

Author:
ARD
Posts: 4291

Oh crap...how the hell did I miss this thread??

I'm so sorry to hear about Otis. That really is tragic...

But if it's cheering up you want...um..that level you showed me is looking fantastic!
And, um, remember a while ago when we were playing a level, and there was a frog, and we stickered it? And it looked funny?
No?
Oh...I think it's in one of the photo frames in my clubhouse anyway...

Urk, I'm not good at this cheering up thing, am I?

How about this?
*makes balloon cat*
Ta-daaa!

Thanks for the kind words on that level. Unfortunately I need water to be implemented in the game before I can finish it. I'm glad you played that with me yesterday, because it made me really WANT to finish it. I already have so much work done on it, it would be a shame to stop.

I'm feeling better, now that my tooth is gone. For those who don't know (i've been keeping this kinda to myself until recently) on top of the cat dying, I had a major toothache. Thought it was my sinuses, but I went to the dentist and my wisdom tooth needed to be pulled and was causing me to be very sick. they pulled it and the tooth was completely rotten.

I'm starting to get back to myself though, and Ghost is a wonderful new addition to my family, so things are looking up! ^_^

Edit: Here is a video of Ghost. I apologize for my annoying narration.

uR0hoyX8GnE		2009-09-04 22:16:00

Author:
xkappax
Posts: 2569

Reminds me of my white boxer, AWWWWWWWWWWWWWW 2009-09-05 19:31:00

Author:
Astrosimi
Posts: 2046

Thanks for the kind words on that level. Unfortunately I need water to be implemented in the game before I can finish it. I'm glad you played that with me yesterday, because it made me really WANT to finish it. I already have so much work done on it, it would be a shame to stop.

I'm feeling better, now that my tooth is gone. For those who don't know (i've been keeping this kinda to myself until recently) on top of the cat dying, I had a major toothache. Thought it was my sinuses, but I went to the dentist and my wisdom tooth needed to be pulled and was causing me to be very sick. they pulled it and the tooth was completely rotten.

I'm starting to get back to myself though, and Ghost is a wonderful new addition to my family, so things are looking up! ^_^

Edit: Here is a video of Ghost. I apologize for my annoying narration.

uR0hoyX8GnE
At 1:29 in the video the cat has a weird look lol..		2009-09-05 20:12:00

Author:
Adam9001
Posts: 744

He's adorable!
I love when cats kick things with their rear paws

Now we need a video of Shady!		2009-09-05 20:13:00

Author:
OmegaSlayer
Posts: 5112

what a cute kitty
and he bit you knee 		2009-09-05 21:10:00

Author:
Unknown User

Awesome cat. I love that lazy way cats sometimes play - our Bitty does it too - but Ghost just lays there on his side playing, and then when the toy gets too far away to reach he just kind of slowly puts his head down and STARES at it, like he's completely giving up. "welp. not playing with THAT anymore."

he's a good looking cat though. sounds like you're doing some pretty good things to get them to accept each other. the towel thing sounds great, I'm definitely going to be stealing that one when we eventually get a second cat.		2009-09-05 21:51:00

Author:
Teebonesy
Posts: 1937

Oh, I have plenty of videos of Shady.

Here's one of ghost and shady that I took today:
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And here is when I first got him.
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I think there are also a few more under my youtube account (albonshasta)		2009-09-05 23:25:00

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xkappax
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