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Grandparents ? your heroes?

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Last Friday, my grandfather passed away, aged 83. He was my last grandparent, so the funeral will probably be more moving than those of my other grandparents. As I'm writing this, I'm back in my hometown for tomorrow's funeral. I mentioned this in my introduction thread, where one of the replies went:


Welcome to LBPC slutzinc. And I am truly sorry to hear about your Grandfather. For many of us, Grandfathers are definitely heros and legends... mine certainly were, and will always stand tall in my mind.

My grandfather on my mother's side, who passed away last Friday, was the kind of grandfather who could always tell a good story. He had the ability to tell tales and stories with so much verve (is that the right word? I'm a bit tired...) that you couldn't not pay attention. And he always rounded them off with a big, heavy laugh. I guess all those stories he told is some of what inspired me to try and become a writer.

My grandfather on my father's side passed away when I was 10, but his kindness, and his strong sense of right and wrong, his view on the world and politics has continued to influence me long after his death. One story in particular I remember is my cousin wanting to go to a rally to protest some... something that would negatively affect the local envorinment. All her friends got grounded so they couldn't go, but they ended up sneaking out. My cousin, however got cheered by my granddad for her commitment.

My two grandmothers had this great affection for life and nature and family that I hope I'll take with me forever.

So that is how my grandparents have been heroes for me. So, I'd like to know how your grandparents have been heroes for you?
2009-08-06 21:26:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124


My grandfather on my mother's side is the only grandparent I've ever known. He's 88, and he still regularly plays golf and snooker. He is awesome, to say the least. I see him every weekend, and he's quite special.
I'm very sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing, but it's nice to hear he inspired you! And you're lucky to have known your other grandparents, mine all died long before I was born.
2009-08-06 21:31:00

Author:
ARD
Posts: 4291


He sounds fantastic! Being able to be that active at that age is marvellous.

Seeing as you never got to know your other grandparents, and the fact that all mine are gone, has made me really appreciate the time I got with them. And I hope that I'll be able to take with me the things they wanted to teach me, and all the memories ? good and bad.
2009-08-06 21:41:00

Author:
slutzinc
Posts: 124


My poppop is 89 (almost 90 O_o). His body is fairly decent, but he can still think... though he keeps on forgetting what he already told us >_<

Yeah, he fought in D-Day, Battle of the Bulge, lots of rewards... reminds me, I really should watch that CD he made :/

Yeeep.
2009-08-06 22:00:00

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RockSauron
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My grandfather on my dad's side passed away the day I was born, and my grandmother on my dad's side died when I was four. Both of the grandparents on my mom's side are still alive, though. I think my grandfather on my mom's side is a veteran of vietnam, but I'm not sure.2009-08-06 22:20:00

Author:
Arkei
Posts: 1432


I'm extremely lucky - I still have my mother's parents and my father's mother around and I'm 35. I remember my father's father very well though so I've known all four of my grandparents. They are some of the most interesting people I've ever talked to. The stories are unbelievable sometimes but they lived in much different times than today. I think that's why grandparents have an almost mystical quality to them. They are as close to time travelers as we can get. It was a different world when they started out and to hear tales of it are so interesting and unusual.

My grandparents are also incredibly generous people too. They don't have wealth but they are selfless when it comes to love, support and will do anything in their power to help out family. I hope my nieces can say half as nice things about me when I'm my grandparents' age.
2009-08-06 22:52:00

Author:
Morgana25
Posts: 5983


Sorry to hear your sad news. It seems like the end of an era when all your grandparents have finally left you.2009-08-06 23:03:00

Author:
mrsvista
Posts: 755


First of all, I'm really sorry to hear of your loss. I've lost two grandparents so far but the other two are still going strong. This in particular hit a note with me:


My grandfather on my mother's side, who passed away last Friday, was the kind of grandfather who could always tell a good story.

My grandfather who is still alive has more stories than you can imagine: All sorts of crazy stuff from school and his childhood, how he cheated his way into the Navy during the 2nd world war (all of his war stories are amazing in fact), how he (inadventantly) worked for and got on first name terms with the Kray Twins, etc., etc. He's 85 now, he still works 1 day a week and is the chairman of the local legion (war vets society in the UK). He is amazing, and to me a great inspiration. Yeah he calls me by my brother's name most of the time, but still, I really find him to be a hero of mine.
2009-08-07 00:21:00

Author:
rtm223
Posts: 6497


i only have one Grandparent its my grandpa he is 802009-08-07 08:30:00

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Unknown User


Yeah, he fought in D-Day
Hey! My grandad was at Omaha! He wasn't fighting though...he was something to do with the bridges for the boats. Innit.
2009-08-07 09:50:00

Author:
ARD
Posts: 4291


My grandfather on my mother side is colonel in the Philippines (Office colonel), but my grandfather on my dads side is a colonel in field battles, also in the Philippines).

Really weird but it's true. My Mom's side grandfather can still do a pull up o_O (He's 85 years old) And he's been injured ALOT.

I guess "Ranks" are what inspires me. So I must thank them for giving me an objective in life. Somewhat role models.


And sorry for you loss. He's probably enjoying youth in heaven
2009-08-12 04:33:00

Author:
Count
Posts: 315


My mom's parents (or my grandparents) died before I could remember anything. I was only about 3 when my grandpa died, and I was about 4 when "Nana" (or grandma) died. Everytime I think about them... I feel so lost. I was too young to actually know who they really were. Both died around their 70's, which is, actually, pretty young compared to others. Now, my grandpa is buried in a cemetary near the city, and my nana was cremated. Our family still has her ashes to this day, in the same spot in the living room, where it has been for many years.

My father's side is all we have left of my family's grandparents. My grandpa was born and raised during the Pacific Campaign, living in Manila. My grandma was raised in a small village, which was constantly attacked by guerilla fighters. Grandpa fought in the Vietnam War, being awarded two Silver Stars and was recommended for the Medal of Honor (which he refused to accept). Grandma was a luxury clothes designer, catering to the residents on Coronado Island; one of her clients were Mrs. Reagan. Now, after about 50 years, my grandparents are finally socializing normally. My grandpa has been in the hospital several times, suffering from heart conditions and medication mix-ups. I still hope they live long enough so that when I have my own family, my kids can get to know them before they pass on.

I'll keep your grandpa in my prayers, slutzinc.
2009-08-12 21:10:00

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Outlaw-Jack
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